At which point is everyone planning on starting their maternity? I’m trying to decide at the moment! Ideally I want as much time off with the baby as I can but I’m exhausted already and I’m only 19 weeks! I work with young children with autism and/or special needs so at times the job can be quite draining! This is my second so when I get home I’ve got my son to look after too and it’s just wiping me out!
I took mat leave 5 weeks before with my first as I work in a nursery and it's ten hour shifts it's so knackering, not sure about my second xx
I took all my holiday and went at the earliest day I could - I think I was around 24 weeks :) xx
I’m thinking 36 weeks too! The way I’m feeling at the moment I’d be surprised if I made it to that point tbh so we’ll see xx
I'm clocking off work for maternity on the 14th of June, due on the 19th of July, so pretty much a month before her due date. I'm very exausted and it's extremely hard work. I just want to earn as much money as I can whilst I'm still able x
I stopped at 35 weeks with our 2nd. I enjoyed it at the time but it was hard having to go back to work when he was 8months. It is hard when you have a physical job & another child so just see how you go. It's still early days. You may get your energy back again. Mine came and went lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@jamiechantelle_7x, yes definitely agree we all need to look after ourselves not worry about what work may say xx