So my fiance tells me December he wants to try for another baby my son is 2 months old my daughter will be 10 next month and I'm gonna be 29 next month I said I've always wanted to have more kids before I was 30 I wanted them close together but that didnt happen I mean I do want kids but idk if I'm gonna be ready to carry another baby for 9 months he is so determined what can I tell him to not hurt his feelings I wanna wait till at least 1 yr or 2 it's already hard now with the 2 kids 1 isnt his and his daughter
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There's decreased chance of complications, going into labor prematurely, and not to mention the physical stress it puts your body through.
He wants to try for another one right now or wait until December to start trying? If it’s right now, tell him you’re not ready. Your son is two months, you’ve just been cleared to have sex. Tell him to slow down and you guys enjoy the newborn you have now. They recommend waiting a year between pregnancies anyways.
If it’s to try in December, then that’s still a ways away. Be honest and let him know your reservations but at least that option gives you both more time to think on it.
For you and your baby's sake it really is better to wait 15-18 months to fully heal after giving birth to try to get pregnant again. Maybe do a little research and show him why its important to wait a little longer?
@leroydoom I explained to him that why he is like December and I had a hard pregnancy so I'm not ready to go thur all that again I wanna wait a 1 or 2 then maybe I'll decide right now I'm enjoying being home and with my son