Every time someone comments on something being rude or giving me Instructions as if I don’t know how to take care of my…

I know how you feel

What was said?

Sometimes I think it’s necessary to say things if it’s wrong, that way moms who may not know can learn.

When it comes to safety something should ALWAYS be said imo

@modom16, I guess. I know how to take care of my daughter though.

Did someone actually say that though? What was the issue

If you’re talking about the car seat picture, in her defense, she was very kind about it and couldn’t have known baby girl wasn’t in the car. I don’t think she was trying to imply you didn’t know how to take care of your daughter, just spreading helpful safety tips. Lots of people on this app post car seat pictures that are horrific because they just don’t know... no one wants to see a mom lose their child due to something that could be preventable. Especially if they noticed but didn’t say anything to help 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ugh not only someone telling you how to care for your child but also telling you that your beliefs are stupid and that you’re wrong for believing that way, I thought this app was about supporting each other but it seems the SOME not all but some of the moms/soon to be moms on here are here to just be rude and disrespectful, and it seems like some of them just want to come on here to argue about any little thing that they find that they don’t agree with. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

@modom16, @laniejay told her to tighten her daughters straps and wasn’t even rude about it. Babies should be buckled in properly even if they’re in a shopping cart

@pumpernickel, oh ok I did see that one like I said op safety should always be pointed out

@amberjacq, I think that could be true for some situations, but not car seats. That’s not a matter of agreeing or not it can be the difference between life or death. Most of us could probably learn something new here that we weren’t aware of before.

@modom16, I agree I just don’t want to be made out as a bad mom. and that’s how I feel when someone comments saying that where everyone can see it. My daughter was in the nicu for 6 weeks. We were taught the right way to put a child in the car seat and learned every bit of safety information. But when i’m walking around target I think it’s fine to loosen the straps and make her more comfortable.

@jtaylorg, I understand what you’re saying, but I really don’t think it was intended that way. I’ve been corrected on how my son is strapped in and honestly it really annoyed me at first, but then I realized it wasn’t malicious and it was only meant to be helpful

@pumpernickel, yeah I know, I gotcha. It’s just that initial feeling like someone is making me feel like a bad mom. When in reality I love my daughter so much I would NEVER put her in harms way. But I get what you’re saying. thanks!

So have you met any of the jersey shore cast!? Lol

@modom16, I wasn’t directing it about car seats I was mostly talking about how some people are just disrespectful, and cross lines that shouldn’t be crossed when it comes to other people’s choices, and decisions, and people tend let their disagreements get the best of them, and it causes an argument, or naming calling which is uncalled for. It’s not hard to disagree on something and still be respectful and kind to that person. I didn’t know this was about car seats.

@boymom_, HAHA I haven’t spoken to them personally but I used to see them at the shore all the time

@jtaylorg, @boymom_, Wait I thought that was a joke? 😂😂😂 I wouldn’t wanna be around them they’re way too crazy!

@amberjacq, lmao no way!

@jtaylorg, lol I wouldn’t either but I love them 😂😂

@boymom_, I’d be afraid I’d catch something with how many people they hoe around with 😂

@amberjacq, it’s no surprise though, most people are the same when it comes to hoeing 😂😂😂 they’re just not all famous lol

@boymom_, @amberjacq, lolol they are crazy but what goes on in the show is literally what happens at the shore 😂