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Stephanie Sosa
Stephanie Sosa
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Help please 😦 DD1 is 3 y/o. And has been “potty trained” for the past year. She was doing so good with it. But lately…

Help please 😦

DD1 is 3 y/o. And has been “potty trained” for the past year. She was doing so good with it. But lately for about the last month to month and a half she’s been having accidents at night. It’s nearly every night. I don’t give her anything to drink close to bed time, I take her to the restroom before bed, she used to wake up asking to go to the restroom but now she doesn’t. What can I do? Family is advising my SO that maybe it’s time to scold and make her see it’s wrong, but I feel like it would just push her to do it more out of fear.

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kittywearingmama

Amber

Please don’t scold her for having accidents. Was she doing ok before this past month with night time training? Could something have happened that’s making her regress? Sometimes night time training takes longer as it’s not so much about knowing when to go but a hormone that your body produces that helps you hold it/wakes you up to go.

letty1311

Letty

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

This happened to my son. Even during the day he would have accident's because he didn't want to stop playing/stop watching the movie he was watching. So we had to go back to using a potty chart with cool stickers to get him excited about using the potty again. It worked for us.

steph0524

Stephanie Sosa

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@kittywearingmama, yeah she was doing good. Waking up probably 2 times a night to pee and she’d go back to bed. It’s just lately. I don’t want to scold her because I feel like it would just make it worst but then I’m not sure if giving her diapers would be good either

steph0524

Stephanie Sosa

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@letty1311, I thought that would work and motivate her but wasn’t too sure. I’m going to give it a try.

leowifey

LEO Wifey

would it help to set an alarm midway through the night so she wakes up to go potty?

girlygirl1988

Alexandra Marie

Мама сына-младенца

Do you think the fact a new baby is coming is causing her to have accidents maybe for attention ?

steph0524

Stephanie Sosa

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@leowifey, I’ve thought about this too. Like I wake up to go pee I have woken her up to go with me. Sometimes she’ll go other times she’ll just say she doesn’t need to and goes back to bed. But the times I’ve done it she doesn’t wet the bed.

modom16

Morgan

My son went through this phase after he was potty trained. He was wetting the bed every single night, then all he sudden it stopped and he hasn’t done it again. To me it’s normal

steph0524

Stephanie Sosa

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@girlygirl1988, @spookylyn,

Is it possible to be because of the new baby coming? We started talking to her about when the baby will come and she is starting to act like a baby asking for a bottle when she’s never had one, wanting to be swaddled and peeing in the bed. I just didn’t think she’d do it as often

mimixtmn

Mimi

My daughter went through this when she started school it happened for months.

tnsad

ND

I would put a pull up on her at night tbh. They do say it takes longer to be fully trained at night.

jewlmama

Julianna J

Мама двоих (младенец)

I agree it sounds like she is regressing. Spooklyn has good advise. I wouldn’t punish her for something that’s normal, just reinforce good behavior, put some pull ups on her and bring her when you go too.

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