@kndosda95, Men like my husband are hard to find you have to pray A LOT! Lol 😂 he is a really good man he is a stinker at times but over all he is wonderful and I pray that you and every other woman in the world finds a man who will love them unconditionally because every woman deserves to have a good man to treat them the way that they deserve and the same for men too every man deserves a good woman to treat them the way they deserve! 😊
@kndosda95, I’m sorry that is happening to you I’m 19 and I never really had boyfriends lol i has one and now I’ve been with my baby dad for 4 years lol but my first one was like that and I was young and a asshole I beat the hell out of him the first time he got in my face like your boyfriend did lol and yes just try to leave and if he put his hands on you idk what you should do only because you have a kid and she doesn’t need to see that stuff I’m sorry this is happening it’s a very hard situation
@mommyof3babies2016, hey girl , yes I have a friend who will take us in/. And help me get a job and on my feet .. now it’s a matter of getting the courage to pack and walk out them doors.i feel a hell of a lot better knowing I have a plan now .
@amberjacq, that was sooo sweet !! And your man is the real mvp for not letting you go to bed mad! And actually want to talk and resolve the problems!! I was about to ask where you find a fella like that , but I guess my knight in shining armour is waiting on my to get this fuck boy out of my life
@amberjacq, I talked to a few friends last night! And one friend of mine said I can move with her that she has a spare bedroom. And she will help me get a job at Walmart ! And I may just have to take that offer up. I’m going to have to find a sitter for my 2m old.. but that’s better than toxicity
@mumstasin, thank you so much love!! I looked at them.. and googling some more kind of closer than Atlanta .. I have a job and a friend who said said she will help me out if I move 3 hours away.. and I may take that leap.. I talked to her for awhilenlast night .she said she will let me stay with her family and get me a job at Walmart.. so that’s good news but ima have to do something soon!
Some guys can be heartless they don’t understand that women need love and attention, and someone who will show that they care, and he is obviously not giving any of that to you, when you started sleeping on the couch he should have came and got you, and sat down like a real man, and talked to you about how you’re feeling, my husband never lets me go to the living room when we’re arguing he comes after my butt and grabs my hand takes me back to our room where we sit down, talk things out like adults but your boyfriend or husband is being childish, and playing games with your emotions, and that makes him heartless because when you’re in a relationship you don’t play with each others emotions, and not answer each other, and not talk things out with each other, and that’s all the stuff he is doing to you, and that’s disrespectful to you, and your relationship.
You only have 1 baby and that’s good. Just muster up the courage to leave. You can do this. You deserve better. Your daughter deserves better. You will be better off without him. You are never alone.
@ceceandgianny216, I just want to fucking cry dude. I’ve been crying all fucking week I feel like . But mostly today .. so when he finally got home. He went straight to the bedroom and I actually didn’t even know he was home. I open door and see him on his phone. Calmly I said what the hell is going on with us . Trying to fucking resolve our whatever issues going on. ( I swear we literally are fighting over stupid petty shit. It’s like he wants us to not get along! Like he likes treating me like shit) and he said leave me alone I said Justin we ain’t going to resolve anything if you continue this nonsense then he yells saying get the fuck out so I leave and I start fucking bawling my eyes out bc all I fucking want to do is stop the fighting and be good again.. well I go back in after like 10 min I cool off and I said look I need to fucking know what you want and if there is someone else and that why you treating me like dog shit he gets out of bed and I ain’t joking . He looked like the hulk was about to smash : his face gets red and his shoulders bowed up. And he yelled leave me the fuck alone and that’s when he punch the door. I just turn around and punch the wall . He now has the dresser and night stand in front of the door so I can’t get in
Okay I’m almost positive these messages are out of order.. but this was earlier he just got home at 11.. but you get the jist of it ..I’m trying to talk and resolve our problems.. we haven’t really talked all week I’ve been sleeping in living room . And it’s like he is taking our relationship as a joke. This shit ain’t funny and it we ain’t ever going to resolve this shit unless he stops being CHILDISH!
@tiffanyhawkins41418, oh of course!! He already threatened me when I said I pack and leave and he said his daughter ain’t going anywhere and I better have a good lawyer bc he fight me for custody and bla bla bla.. that mother fucker goes out every weekend while I’m at home with our ba
@tiffanyhawkins41418, that really means a lot. You just don’t know.. I just want to break down and cry . I have never been treated this shitty and we have been on and off for the last 3 years..I just can’t leave and not have a plan.: I can’t take my daughter out of this home and we both be homeless jobless carless and all. I have to figure shit out
@ceceandgianny216, thank you love .. this is the most toxic relationship I have ever been in and it just makes it worse now that our baby girl is in the mix now.. I can’t just worry about my self now I have to worry about her to
@amomandherbug, girl I know. I need to do what’s best for my daughter and I.: it’s a matter of actually taking that first step though . I need to get my ducks in a row and actually figure shit out before just picking up and leaving . I have to do what’s best for her .. but being homeless isn’t a very good option either. Just fucking stressing
Are you okay? I would take your girl and get the hell out of there right now. Don’t be scared to take that first step. Don’t let him lay a fucking hand on you and get away with it. Hell no