Ladies I need to vent I live with my mom my 2 boys and my fiancee well my mom's bf came to live with…

He is. If he’s already doing this before you’re married what makes you think it’s going to be different after marriage. He’s so quick to up and leave now. This the same person who said he didn’t want to pay your sons portion because that’s not his son. I think this is a blessing in disguise. You shouldn’t be treated like that nor allow yourself to be treated like that. You’re raising boys. They need to know that they shouldn’t treat ANY woman like that. It hurts right now but the time will come where you will be glad you didn’t go thru with that toxic relationship.

Wait so your married to someone else already & your boyfriend wants you to divorce so you can marry him but he’s trying to leave ?

( He wants me to hurry up and get divorced also so we can get married but yet he doesnt want to be here with me)

@itsdestyn, omg yes very true ! Happen to me before the relationship I got in now ! So happy I let him go and found better !

@sgoodbeir, same girl. My first child’s father is NOT in my son’s life and my boyfriend now loves my son so much and takes care of him. He honestly is truly a blessing. I had to love myself first then God showed me this man!! We swear we aren’t worth more but we ARE!!!

@itsdestyn, yes me too !!!!!!! My boyfriend is 36 an he has no kids he deals with my kids like if we had them together ! Sometimes you have to let go of what’s hurting you so God can show you what you deserve

Let him leave! Sounds like you will be better off

@masseymomma16 @itsdestyn @sgoodbeir Well ladies he left... He came for his stuff he said he would never step foot in this house again and his excuse was that he didnt want to have problems with my mom and her boyfriend. Idk what to do because I love him 🙁

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, if he can leave that easily not once but twice then it's not mutual love. Sounds like he just found an excuse. You will find better!

@masseymomma16 this is the 3rd time and his reason was my mom and her bf. He said he was leaving because he didnt want to end up fighting with them. And he said hurry up and decide what you want if you want to be together because time passes and anything can happen. And i said what does that mean that your going to start talking to someone and he said I'm just saying. Also he isn't going to help me pay the mortgage payment anymore

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, why can't your mom and Bf go somewhere else? Or give them a date to move?

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, I also understand his not wanting to live with your mom and BF and sounds like a full house! If that's truly his only reasoning I would be finding different living arrangements.

@masseymomma16 well that's the thing its her house

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, find your own place with him!

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, him leaving is God’s plan ! If you can’t leave him then him leaving you is a sign ! 3rd time ? Plus y’all not married yet so really he’s doing you a good favor and you won’t see that yet but soon you will ! I PROMISE I have been Thur it but instead of my ex leaving me he stayed because I allowed him to treat me anyway but I left ! One day your goin to be so happy and think “ I’m happy he left “ lol trust me girl ! You have your sons to deal with now ! Not a extra person ‘ get dressed today and make yourself look good ! Don’t sit and be sad and worry ! One day he will come back but don’t take him back ! He will just leave again soon but you’ll already know that ! I really hope you hearing me out because I was feeling the same way as you girl ! & that was my sons father I didn’t wanna leave him BUT I DID & IM HAPPPYYYY I DID lol

@sgoodbeir TY it's just hard because I love him and I feel like he just finds any excuse to leave if you ask me. We had just gotten back together after being separated for 8 months and then he comes bck in the end of march and stays a month and leaves again

@mommyof2preciousboys1216, it’s all for your own good girl ! I wish I could come hug you like seriously ! I just know your hurt ! Time heals tho sweetie !

@sgoodbeir yeah it just hurts because he doesn't seem to care about his son. And finds any excuse to leave. And then he says that time goes by fast and anything can happen I'm like wtf is that supposed to mean. And i told him you haven't said you love me and everytime I ask you never answer me. And he said I'm not going to say I don't love you its just that ppl change everything changes