I have a feeling my MIL is going to expect/try to get us to go to her house on Mother’s Day... 😂 Nope. 🙅🏻 ♀ Not…

@miaheka Exactly it's Your day 1st

@icebergahead, 😅😅😂🙈

@miaheka, 😭

@icebergahead, she probably added in the walk to and from the car, to the aquarium, and back to the house. 😅

@miaheka, Itry to suggest easy things like the Aquarium. Not a lot of walking but still😭

@cbelias060594, at least you set your boundaries! I don’t have a mother or father to celebrate with, nor would they even deserve to be celebrated either. So I’m very big on my SO staying with me and our son instead of us going to her house. I don’t like her at all. I don’t even like her going near my son. 😣

@carmalyssh, omg, that’s unfortunate. I’m so sorry girl! 😕 why don’t you go with them? And at least you have a day to yourself! 💕

@icebergahead, lol mine is the same way. She refuses to leave her house. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I have a feeling my MIL wants to do something.

Always involves eating at a table somewhere lol. She does not like to walk, AT ALL😩

I hated my MIL too. Me and my daughters father are no longer together. But when we were together I spent Mother’s Day with my mom and he spent it with his. I didn’t care because I was going to spend Father’s Day with my father. If he dared to try and tell me I had to spend it with him instead of my father it would have been a huge issue. I love my father and I feel like my parents will always be my parents and now me and him aren’t together so I didn’t waste any holidays away from my family for him.

Every year my so and his sisters go to their mom's camp for a cook out, I've been a mom for the past 5 years and have yet to have a mother's day for myself, so for the past 3 years I've been staying home by myself.... He takes the kids with him too btw. Not so much a happy mother's day.

@raquely, omg. That same thing happened to me! She resented me because I was the one who convinced him to move out of his parents out at 27 years old and in an apartment with me. The day I had Bellamy she did the same thing! I don’t even know how, but she even convinced the maternity staff to allow her in the ward an hour before visiting hours started! She walked in while I was still in my gown, breastfeeding B. all dolled up in her expensive shit yelling out loud “Oh my grandson, blah blah blah” and yanked him out of my arms without even asking to hold him, I WAS furious! Before she went in to kiss him I shut that bitch down real quick! Even now I tell her not to kiss him. I don’t even let her hold him. I don’t trust her at all. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@roguemommyofjx3, lol if I do that then I’ll be super bitter with him and give him shit for leaving us on my first Mother’s Day. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

@miaheka if she does have him go to her alone and stay with your son and enjoy your day with him.

@raquely, Ugh. I know! I get so angry seeing her do that shit and my SO just doesn’t understand why. I wish I could block her, but she’ll cry and complain to Mike that I hate her and that I’m keeping her son and “grandson” she never sees away from her. So I just bite my damn tongue. She lives 3 blocks away and I only see her once a month the most... how sad is that?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

@roguemommyofjx3, it’s extremely frustrating. She texts and calls my SO 10+ times every god damn day about the most random shit, but she won’t ask how I’m doing or the baby and always expects pictures... like bitch, no. The only time you’ll get a picture is when we do holiday cards. Other than that stfu. I’m SO done with her. I know for a fact she’ll call my SO on Mother’s Day, ask him why we didn’t take the baby to her, and guilt trip him about it might being her last year to celebrate anything. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I told him not to make me go over there and do it for her if she’s gonna be this fucking stupid about it.

@miaheka it's frustrating.

@roguemommyofjx3, SAME FREAKIN’ thing. I don’t trust her anyways even if she wanted to watch him. 😒

@camsmomma, what?! It’s true! 😩😂

@raquely, So annoying! 😩 My mil lives 3 blocks away and I still refuse to take Bellamy there. She doesn’t bother to come to our house either, so why should I take my baby over there?! I don’t give a flying crap if you’re “grandma”. You haven’t even acted like a grandma since even before he was born. This woman will wait for me to post on fb to take all my pictures and repost them as her own as if he’s her child and she’s actively in his life. Like, NO. 🙅🏻‍♀️ I’ve had to stop posting on fb because of that shit. 😣😒😓

@yamip91, That’s exactly what I told him this morning. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know why, but she ALWAYS expects all of her kids to go to her, but will NEVER do the same if she ever wants to visit them. She’ll complain it’s too far, too hot, or that she just doesn’t want to. It’s extremely sad. She has all this family, 5 boys and a million grandchildren and she just keeps to her self. 🙄😒

@yamip91 girl my in law lives across the driveway she don't watch my girls.

@miaheka, literally made me laugh 😂

@miaheka

Then she better not expect to be praised and loved on mothers day!

@yamip91, my MIL lives 3 blocks away, and I STILL only see her once a month at most.🤦🏻‍♀️ That’s how much of an inactive grandmother/mother she is to my boys. 😒🙄

I like my mil. She is nice but I am also so lucky she lives 4hrs away😈😈😈

I dont think I could deal with her expecting so much for holidays and stuff.

Then again sometimes I wish she lived close because having 2 kids and no one to watch them when I need to go to the doctor sucks

@queeniefitmama, I told him it’s my day now, not hers and he better not get her anything especially if I’m not getting anything. 😒 Honestly though, she doesn’t even deserve to be celebrated on Mother’s Day. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@miaheka, and unless your SO wants to be rubbing one out every night ; HOMIE BETTER RECOGNIZE 😂😂

@queeniefitmama, YES! For real. 😂 My family, my rules. 💁🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

My MIL won’t even get wished HMD from me. 😂 because fuck her

@sherrynygirl, I told my SO the same thing this morning. She had 600+ mother’s days with her 5 boys... It’s my turn now with my SO and our son. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@miaheka Exactly it's Your day 1st