On a scale of 1-10 how physical are u with your s/o? 10 being like just married can't keep my hands off u type of relationship. And 1 being seems like we're just roomates that fool around from time to time. Also do having kids or being pregnant affect how physical you are with ur s/o
In public we are not huge PDA people. Hold hands, quick peck on the lips. Maybe a subtle ass grab under a coat. At home we are very affectionate. Our kids are usually grossed out 😂
@cmjohnson3047, I’m just not down with PDA, nor do I particularly enjoy seeing people basically having sex while I’m trying to eat dinner/whatever 🤷🏼♀️
Umm lol probably a 1 or a 2 😕
Ttc for 4 years has kinda put a damper on things.. plus I have always had a really low sex drive. I wish I didn't. He has a pretty low sex drive too so it kinda works.
I do miss how things were in the beginning of our relationship though lol
I mean we cuddle and love on each other when we watch our shows and while we go to sleep but no making out and sex every night lol I feel like I made us sound bad haha😂
7-9. It just varies. We have 3 kids and work, he particularly works very long hours. We also live with my SIL now so...
we definitely would like to be more intimate but ya get it in when ya can fit it in.
We are a solid 6. Definitely more than roommate status and no where near when we were first dating, lots of kissing, moderate sex life lol. Been together 8 and married 5, one toddler.
Mines around an 8 where i have my days where I just wanna do nothing but hangout and watch TV and everything else but bd and then I have those days where I'm at a 10! He's always at a 10 😂 we do have a 1yr8m old daughter and that plays a big factor on why I'm usually not at a 10
I would say since having kids we're a 9, mostly cuz he works super long hours
Me and my husband been together since 2010 married on 2012 n had first kid that same year n I should say it goes up n down ... things do change after kids cuz we are more busy but they get better as u adapt .. I say right now we are a 8... but we’re a 3 at some point
Im like an 8. We would be an 11 if it were up to him. Been together 5 years. Have 2 kids pregnant with number 3. Personally I don't care if we had sexy time often but he is as horny as a teenage boy so I give it up alot. But some days I just can't be bothered and he's ok with it.
If u mean sex I say a 9 .. but that also just got to 9 afew months back. He always at a 10 thou . Decreased cuz me
10 for dh and I. He is always trying to touch me or grabbing my butt. Having kids didn't change anything for us luckily. Been together 10 years, married for almost 5.
We are a an 8. Sometimes I’m just not in the mood but we cuddle every night he’s more big on PDA than I am lol
Neither of us are big on pda. Been married 5 years together 6. We cuddle every night. We are comfortable but not roommate status
Probably a 9. I was in so much pain my entire pregnancy so we had sex only a handful of times. After the doctor gave me the go ahead it was game on 😉
Some days it's 1 and others it's 10, so I'll say 5 to average it out 😂
Like... 8? 9? And only because sometimes we can't. Now its if my SO touches my butt my almost 3 year old will come up behind him and do the same thing to me and hes always around us so i try to tell him to limit touching like that. Usually every day all day we touch. Kiss. Hug. Rub. Sex once a day at least. I gained so much weight during pregnancy i feel so ugly but he assures me and his attention to me helps me not feel so self conscious. Kids can get in the way though lol just have to find the right time
Right now maybe a 2 it's bad but I still in post pregnancy (Athena is 4months but very needy)
It’s varies 🤷🏽♀️ For instance, I’m on day 4 of 4 of a stretch of 12 hour shifts, so I haven’t interacted much with hubby. I don’t usually work that many hours in a row so we usually have a lot more interaction and tender moments
Average time in our lives I would say we are a 9.
Right now being nearly 36 weeks pregnant we are like a 1 :(
We’re probably at a 3.... which is a lot better than it used to be. I struggle with a mixture of low libido/PTSD from sexual abuse in my childhood. So badly wish it could be better for us, my poor husband has such a high sex drive. Maybe one day.
We are definitely a 10. We've been together for 23 years, married 19 and we just really can't get enough of each other.
It didn't change after we had children either. We have a 20 yr old, 15 yr old, and 8 yr old. We just have this vibe between us that can't be denied I guess 🤷🏽♀️
@cmjohnson3047, I love it! That young love never wore off for us. Lol I'm not even 40 yet (will be in June) but hubby just does something to me 😩 I love that dude.
@pure.grace yeah my hubbs isnt a touchy feeliy person but i am all the way
@poshcourtney aww thats amazing!!! I feel that way abt my husband too!
Yes girl...its amazing when you both are on the same page and committed to loving on each other through thick and thin.
Seriously, like a 1. It's pretty fucking sad. Especially since everyone else answered an 8 or higher.
@peckypecker tbh it sometimes feel like that wit me and dh! Hes not into all the touchiness like i am
@cmjohnson3047, it was never like this in the beginning. Idk what changed. It used to bother me so much but now I'm just used to it.
@peckypecker i couldn't deal... like i loved to b touched but lateky idk wth is up
9-10. We’ve been together for 12 years and have 3 children. We’re huge pervs and grope eachother every time we pass eachother 🤷🏻♀️
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@cmjohnson3047, I’m just not down with PDA, nor do I particularly enjoy seeing people basically having sex while I’m trying to eat dinner/whatever 🤷🏼♀️