I’m starting to get really irritated with this and I don’t know what do to do. I’m hoping someone has some advice...
My mother watches my son for me and never tells me no. I’ve been noticing though when I come and get him she says she changed his diaper and there is no way. His diaper will be just saturated with pee like he hasn’t been changed. She sometimes has him for multiple hours.
Our relationship isn’t the best and isn’t the worst. But whenever I try to advocate for myself or my son she becomes highly defensive and doesn’t listen to me. It never goes anywhere. I don’t want her to feel like I’m taking him from her but I also don’t want to worry that his basic needs aren’t being met. He doesn’t cry when his diaper is wet, I change him every two hours unless he sleeps for three at night.
I know she’s feeding him but this diaper situation is really starting to get to me. How do I approach her? Ive contemplated setting alarms on her cell phone to change him, but I don’t want to over step my place as a daughter, but now I’m also a mother. Has anyone else had a similar situation? How did you handle it?