@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I’d do that but hate taking medicine and to have to take it every day I would forget or get annoyed taking them

@meggcragle I've always just used the pills

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, absolutely i just couldn’t find a better birth control in my liking but when I got off the depo before I started to get so many cyst on my ovaries I hope it’s different this time around bc they had me in the hospital

@meggcragle well it's better than being pregnant right away again at least

@goodjourney, absolutely. Definitely second guessing now lol

@meggcragle ok well be careful mama

@goodjourney, oh wow yeah it just like a guessing game bc you really don’t know how the inside is. I had no stitches near there and no rip or anything

With my son i waited to 6 weeks. With my daughter i didn't wait pass 2 but thankfully i was fine. It is up to you but definitely a risk because you can get an infection or rip stitches if you had a csection etc

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, yess going back on the depo at my appointment. I go on the 8th I was on it before kinda don’t want that bc when I got off it it caused so many problems for me but I lost my insurance that’s why I had to go off it

@meggcragle are you going to consider birth control?

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, dear lord lmao maybe we will try it. He definitely is not small and I hate condoms but no babies at the moment haha and I get itchy from them but I can’t wait no more lol

@lydia09876, I need your doctor then lmao

@meggcragle yeah it can be just as painful and uncomfortable as your first time, especially if your man has a bit of girth to him 😅 but if you feel like you're ready, give it a try. When I had my son I waited 8 weeks and even then it hurt but I also has him via csection and my sons father was girthy so it was very uncomfortable and not very pleasurable at all

@meggcragle, my doc told me too

@lydia09876, you are brave lol I have been wanting it since being home but I told myself nopppeee lol but we did the other haha and no problem no pressure or pain so I’m sitting here like can I just go ahead and do it

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I had him naturally with stitches up high near where you pee and they are gone. And that’s what I’ve heard lol I was like ahhh okay don’t know how that works when I just pushed out a baby that was 6.6 how the hell does it make you feel like a virgin so I researched and was like ahhh okay I understand lol

I did it at 3 weeks

@dazzlingmommy, 2 weeks oh hell no lmao I felt fine at 2 weeks but I couldn’t imagine having sex right after a baby lol. I only had stitches on my lip up high near where you pee bc the doctor cut me by accident bc she was literally hands in pulling him out so my stitches are gone but didn’t even know they were there. Sadly bc my man likes it we did the other 🙄 and that was fine so idk lol but damn 8 weeks lol idk how you did it

You can feel better and be done bleeding but it's a different story when it comes to actual intercourse but if you delivered vaginally and feel like you can handle it then give it a try but make sure he takes it easy at first, it's like being a virgin all over again as odd as it sounds lol BUT if you had a csection you really should wait till 6 weeks or until you are healed and the stitches and/staples are gone.

I’ve heard many moms who didn’t wait more than two weeks! Lol it’s all up to you I guess. I deff waited the full 8 weeks and I’m glad I did because even though I felt fine my dr told me my stitches weren’t fully healed inside at my check up 😬😩