I don’t normally rant: But nothing pisses me off more than some dead beat half ass person in my children’s life, you either want to be a part of my girls lives or you don’t. I don’t need anyone in their lives that don’t want to be, and I’m damn sure not going to beg to anyone to spend time with my kids. My eldest daughters father has been in and out of jail her whole life, and people want to question my reasons for not wanting her to see her father in a drug rehab?! She’s my daughter, I birthed her, and sorry if I sound like a total bitch, but I feel like since I’ve been the one that’s always done everything for her and being mother and father isn’t an easy role to play, but I feel like everything is my decision. I didn’t make his choices for him, what he does or doesn’t do isn’t on me, it’s on him! And I don’t claim to be the perfect parent, because no one is perfect, but I feel like everyone is alway so quick to blame the mother for the fathers actions or not getting to see their child. I don’t feel like my daughter should have to see her father in jail/rehab. I do thank God everyday for bringing a man in my life that has been happy to step up and be the father he doesn’t have to be to my eldest daughter, just as he treats our youngest daughter.