My husband went to walmart this morning to grab a couple things for our son. He comes back and surprises me with a pack…

What a douche canoe 🙄

And that when you go on strike.

@damn.it.red for real! When he comes home he gets on his video game, eats, leaves dishes, and goes to sleep.

@aylenrose, throat punch him or nut kick him

@littleonemorning I should it just makes me so mad. He doesn't get what its like being a SAHM its a lot of work and I don't get to clock out after 8 hours. On his days off he doesn't do a thing but play video games, take a nap or watch his shows.

Tell him u dnt want the Powerade. Then go get your own. Lol

@damn.it.red its crossed my mind I'm glad he went to work. 😒

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@aylenrose, thank god. Saved him from holding his throat and his balls in pain.

@n_favors, That is exactly what I was about to type word for word.

@n_favors I didn't even mention or ask for them so to give me an ultimatum for something I didn't ask for is messed up. We share a car so I couldn't but still.

You should do what I do with my SOs stuff when he leaves it laying around. If he throws dirty laundry on the floor I give him 3 days to pick it up. If he doesn't pick it up I will pick up that dirty shirt dirty socks dirty underwear whatever it may be and shove it into one of the drawers with all his clean clothes!!! One time I even let my daughter pick out what drawer she wanted to put it in. 💪

@aylenrose, I hate that excuse. We already do everything. Remind him that the “mess” is his and unless he wants to be treated like a toddler, then he can help too.

@littleonemorning he thinks because he works he shouldn't have to help with anything.

@aylenrose, not an excuse. 🙄 maybe on one his days off you take a Mom day and leave him alone with the toddler.

@mommiesaremagical14 that's hilarious I probably wouldn't do that but our bathroom has his clothes all over the floor.

@aylenrose he finds it funny when I do that and he takes care of it. That's nothing compared to what I've done a couple of times before. There's been a couple times where I just picked up whatever was left on the floor of his and threw it away. I've told him before I already wash dry fold and put away your laundry I am not going to pick it up off the floor I am your partner and the mother of your child I am a stay-at-home mother not your slave.

@littleonemorning truth! Even if I did he'd tell me to take him. I ask him to take his son with him to go grab food so I can get 15 minutes to myself and he says no its to much work.

@aylenrose, I just wouldn’t give him an option. Pick a day and just tell him your going out and leave before he can say anything. Tell him it’s called being a dad.

I agree with @littleonemorning, he needs to get a reality check! My husband is the same way... and we have 3 kids!!! I’ve gotten him used to staying home with the kids while I grocery shop, etc ( since that’s my escape 😣 ) but it took a while to get to that point. I feel like men are just naturally selfish.

@mommiesaremagical14, I need to do this lol I just shove all his dirty stuff in his game room , trash , his dirty dishes and clothes and leftover food he leaves in my room ... he’s gotta pick it up 🤷🏻‍♀️

@aylenrose, you shouldn’t even let him know you’re going somewhere just pick any day wait till him and baby are in the same room and sneak out ... SO hates being alone with baby because he plays his stupid video games ... one day I put baby in his room with him and told him I was gonna do dishes , I walked out and went to my FIL room which is all the way upstairs all the way to the end of the house . FIL left me keys to his room so I locked myself in there and relaxed ... not even 10 minutes in I guess he noticed and started bombing my phone , I didn’t answer till 2 hours later . Till this day he doesn’t know where I was

@blueezy23 yeah, just because we stay home (if you do) doesn't mean that we are not busy. I do all the housework but there's no reason for them to intentionally make more work for use to do.

@mommiesaremagical14 yes I'm a SAHM so I take care of my son, clean the living room and kitchen and bathroom at least every other day.

@aylenrose girl, don't I know it!! With being in the middle of moving I not only have our current apartment that we've been living in for the past three years to constantly maintain I've got a house and another😩 apartment that's attached to the side of it that I have to maintain. I only have one mop vacuum and broom so every time I come to the house I clean it then I take those over to the apartment and I clean it and then the next time I come back here I drop them off!! It's exhausting 😩