@alycia_marie, LOL! Cant argue with that!

@memybumpandi, if he stopped buying his friends and paid more attention to his wife and kids, she wouldn’t have left him and he wouldn’t be lonely..🤷🏼‍♀️

@alycia_marie, dont know where to say aw! Or wtf?! LOL!

@memybumpandi, he’s a very lonely guy and loves to be needed!

@alycia_marie, strange to hear a man would even do that!

@schuldiesa, oh he knows, I’m not shy about it! But all it does is cause a fight every time I say anything bc “he helps us out a lot” still my kid, my rules, and I’m enforcing them this time.

@alycia_marie oh my gosh! That sounds horrible! Does your SO know how you feel? Maybe he can talk to his friend. That's way too much!

@schuldiesa, @memybumpandi, I don’t even think my SO’s family will even come up bc they don’t like nor do I care. But if they want to there will be set times so we can rest and adjust. I have very little family close by so they’ll prob contact me first anyways. Our biggest problem will be my SO’s “best friend” who in very invasive. We lived in another state when our last son was born and we got home from the hospital, not even for an hour yet, and he was knocking on our door and stayed for 4 days! Call us first, come visit for an hour at the hospital and call it a day. I refuse to have people stay at my house while adjusting to a newborn. Not even my mother will be doing that.

I'm considering the same thing! I want me and my SO to be able to bond with out baby before people start coming in and taking her. So I definitely don't think you're being selfish.

Protect your space. If thats what you want do it!!