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Victoria Moriarty
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A little TMI... But I gave birth vaginally on December 31st. Ever since then, my sex drive has been a joke. We had sex…

A little TMI...

But I gave birth vaginally on December 31st. Ever since then, my sex drive has been a joke. We had sex maybe twice and it wasn't too comfortable. I'm 13 weeks and 1 days PP and the last time I had pleasure sex was the day I went into labor, so December 30th. My fiance and I tried having sex last night and when he tried to put it in, it hurt A LOT and the aftermath was me sobbing and hurting a bit. I felt WAY too tight. I was always pretty tight before giving birth so matter how aroused I was and no matter how much lubrication was used. But this time he couldn't fit AT ALL! It's so frustrating. Could it be it's because I haven't FULLY gotten my sex drive back? Is there any way I can help that? I'm so upset, I just want to have sex already! But no matter how turned on I get and how desperate I am to have sex, just thinking about anything sexual or just having sex with completely then me off and make me feel grossed out. Last night was super different, though. Like I REALLY wanted it. I feel more confident than I was pregnant and pre pregnancy. I love my fiance. Anyone else experienced or experiencing the same thing? :(

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gone12233ie

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Same thing happened to me I had pain when we would do it for some months u just have to ease urself into it & dnt feel bad that u have to wait it will come back so I just give it some time

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shykitten98

Victoria MoriartyМама дочки-младенца

@emileemoreland5 thank you so much!!!

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asandovaln

April Мама дочки-младенца

@shykitten98, same 😣 this morning he was kissing my neck & I quickly got up & said I had to pump I felt so bad

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shykitten98

Victoria MoriartyМама дочки-младенца

@asandovaln seriously!! The last time I had sex pregnant was awesome and now I don't even like being touched!

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asandovaln

April Мама дочки-младенца

@shykitten98, it really is! My whole pregnancy we were so active it makes me sad that i try to avoid having sex now 😣

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shykitten98

Victoria MoriartyМама дочки-младенца

@asandovaln so frustrating!!

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shykitten98

Victoria MoriartyМама дочки-младенца

@mariagtorresr2710 yes I'm breastfeeding, didn't think that could affect it! I get too paranoid to relax, then only thing that really helped was weed and I cant pump and dump since my milk flow is only influenced by her saliva and nursing before pumping only helps a bit :( I'll have to talk to my doctor about it. I'm so sexually frustrated and it's been affecting my mood so much. I've been all kinds of stressed and depressed 😭

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asandovaln

April Мама дочки-младенца

I’m the same way! I gave birth the 31st as well & have noticed that I’m really tight & it hurts to have sex which has never happened before 😫

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_moodyblu_

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I did a few months postpartum! It got so bad I talked to my doctor about it. Are you breastfeeding? She explained to me that it’s our hormones going crazy and sometimes the discomfort is our mind? Subconsciously? Lol she told me to relax what I did was drink a little wine before doing the deed and after that it was way more enjoyable. Breastfeeding also makes us more dry so that was huge discomfort for me. 7 months now and the sex is better than ever!

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shykitten98

Victoria MoriartyМама дочки-младенца

@emileemoreland5 usually we don't need any because I get super wet really easily, we did foreplay for a good couple of hours 😭 any lube suggestions?

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