I’ve been telling my bf that during this whole pregnancy, I’ve felt alone. Like we aren’t on the same page... he hasn’t said anything or done anything to prove me otherwise.
And then just the other day he had said “I’m keeping count of all the massages/back rubs you owe me.” Like wtf? I didn’t realize it was tit for tat, cus if I had known.... I wouldn’t have gone to him for any.
I’m just really over being pregnant. And I’m afraid that when baby girl arrives, it’ll still be all me. Like he’s not going to get up and change her or feed her cus he’s sleeping and god forbid anything interrupts his sleep.
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@amandacatemohr, ughhh. It breaks my heart to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. My bf comes home pretty late 3-5am, but doesn’t get up until 2pm. Every single dayyyy. But I’m glad my parents are able to help.. but he’s not really willing to stay at their place. So I’m so conflicted 😭
Sadly, if you're worried he might not help.. He probably won't. I am pregnant with baby #2, and am a SAHM and take care of our 1 year old while my husband sleeps all day before work (he gets off work at 12:30 a.m., but stays up playing damn video games). When I tried talking to him about how nervous I was about have two under two, he just laughed and said he'd be at work all the time and didn't have to worry about it.. broke my heart.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I’ve only had 2 ultrasounds one at 12w and anatomy at 20w my Ob said I won’t get anymore now ... 🤔🤔 ? Sooo I won’t know position or weight or anything until he’s here ? I feel like I had at least one more with my daughter around 35 weeks . 😕😕
my boyfriend has this friend he’s known since they were little kids. she likes to go out to eat and go to the movies, stuff like that and he’s usually the one she goes with. I’ve expressed that i’m uncomfortable with it plenty of times and even after talking to the girl about why I feel like this and even being told and me knowing that nothing is going on between them, i still find myself very uncomfortable with it. 😩
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I ...
Maybe TMI but I have a sex question of sorts ....
Ok I hope I can word this right. My husband is a fairly good sized man and even though we’ve been together almost 18 years no matter how wet I get it still kind of hurts when we have sex. It almost feels as if I’m ripping. There are also times if he’s positioned just right it feels like he’s poking organs inside of me even though I know he’s not. We were doing the deed last night and went through all that like normal but after we were done I ins...
If you ever need someone to talk to, girl, message me. Because I know exactly where you're coming from. ♡