I’ve been telling my bf that during this whole pregnancy, I’ve felt alone. Like we aren’t on the same page... he hasn’t said anything or done anything to prove me otherwise.
And then just the other day he had said “I’m keeping count of all the massages/back rubs you owe me.” Like wtf? I didn’t realize it was tit for tat, cus if I had known.... I wouldn’t have gone to him for any.
I’m just really over being pregnant. And I’m afraid that when baby girl arrives, it’ll still be all me. Like he’s not going to get up and change her or feed her cus he’s sleeping and god forbid anything interrupts his sleep.
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@amandacatemohr, ughhh. It breaks my heart to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. My bf comes home pretty late 3-5am, but doesn’t get up until 2pm. Every single dayyyy. But I’m glad my parents are able to help.. but he’s not really willing to stay at their place. So I’m so conflicted 😭
Sadly, if you're worried he might not help.. He probably won't. I am pregnant with baby #2, and am a SAHM and take care of our 1 year old while my husband sleeps all day before work (he gets off work at 12:30 a.m., but stays up playing damn video games). When I tried talking to him about how nervous I was about have two under two, he just laughed and said he'd be at work all the time and didn't have to worry about it.. broke my heart.
If you ever need someone to talk to, girl, message me. Because I know exactly where you're coming from. ♡