Getting told "I hate you" even though this morning it was "I love you" and being told that it's shitty that they have to put up with you being their child's mother. And that lord knows "if that baby wasn't in you, I couldn't give a shit less about you."
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@kndosda95 literally almost identical to my situation. And then he wants to tell me I don't do anything when I'm the one who's home doing everything 99% of the time. But he packed all his stuff and left and now I just lay in bed and cry bc I didn't want any bad blood between us when it was time for me to have her.
@alexisjordan.ky, being with my boyfriend has its ups and downs.. I feel you on not wanting to talk much about the negatives because it makes u look stupid.. I’m the opposite though.. my man is so controlling so I can’t have friends.. all I have is his family. And I vent to them bc they know exactly how he is. But I always said it’s my problem bc I choose to stay and not do anything about getting treated like shit. I hope your baby comes out looking like him to put him to ease bc trust me throughout this whole pregnancy I was told it wasn’t his and I am a hoe which I left someone who went to jail to get back with him!! We have been on and off for 3 years . And we split for a few months and when we got back together I got pregnant within that weekend . I moved back down here to live with him on a Friday and we had sex every day Friday sat and Sunday. And believe it or not I conceived one of those days. So I understand why he had a little doubt but I hadn’t had sex for about a month before I moved back down here and he wouldn’t believe me on that . So he doubted me .. and if I knew this was how being pregnant was and i was going to go through hell. I would have never ever wanted to be pregnant.. he went out every weekend to the bar.. I never had a back,foot massage..I still cooked and cleaned and did yard work.. stayed home 24/7 while he went out doing whatever
Lmao I'd be outties quicker than you can blink your eyes. Getting you pregnant doesn't give him rights to anything actually. If he wants to be an asshole you can keep him away and require a paternity test ☺
@alexisjordan.ky crazy outburst your about to deliver a baby..sometimes people act out and HAS NOTHinG to do with who they take it out on..! You don't have to let anyone in the delivery room not even him..When you give birth*Your words and safety &the baby is all that matters*
@sherrynygirl all bc I asked why he was so irritable today. He said when I asked, I yelled and it set him off when I "yelled" and he threw a cup at me and punched a hole through my door. And proceeded to throw money at me and said "here this can be 1st month's child support" even though I never once said anything about making him pay child support.
@shanique17 by myself. I'm on the lease, he was just staying here.
Such strong hurtful words...sorry...men are stupid asses at times...You need to be happy for yourself and know your 100%perfect for your baby that Needs You...Change the locks on the door.move fwd and let karma take over..You deserve to be loved and not talked down upon and a man who makes you and the baby toppp priority
@alexisjordan.ky Do you live by yourself or do you live with family?
@shanique17 he packed all of his stuff today and left.
@kndosda95 same here. I don't say much about the negative things. I just hide it tbh so I don't look stupid as shit for keeping him around. It's been this way on and off the whole time and of course right before I found out I was pregnant he had quit talking to me and even left the city and the only reason he came back and started treating me right for a little bit is bc I found out I was pregnant and then started denying her even though I hadnt and still haven't been with anyone else in over 2 years. I pray she comes out looking like him bc he still expresses doubt sometimes. But we aren't married so of course we have to get a dna test anyway or they won't let us have his name on the birth certificate. I'm always low key jealous of all these women on here praising the supportive and romantic men in their lives that are being so great through the pregnancy and I've done nothing but stressed and struggled with my depression almost the entire time.
@mommy_x3 it's his baby, I wouldn't want it that way if it were him having her. He's being a dick but I wouldn't have him miss the birth of his first child.
Babygirl for the whole 9 months of my pregnancy I went through that.. and being told I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t pregnant.. that he can’t stand me. He denied this baby the whole time and it’s funny bc she came out looking just like him.
@alexisjordan.ky, you don’t necessarily have to! It’s all up to you who you want at the birth
@mommy_x3 yeah I feel like complete shit and I have to act civil with him here in a few days when I have her.
Hello this is Ceiamaria husband Mac I told a lot of you that when I knew what happened too my bestie the love of my life it is being said that she had an enlarged heart and again I’m thinking you all your prayers and thought are being felt thank you
I had some woman on here follow me then asked if we could talk. asked how far along I was, I told her then asked what kind of phone I had I told her asked why then she asked for my number.... I told her as nicely as I could that "I don't know you, so no" it was weird and creepy! I don't mind talking to people on here but just to be so forward like that has me suspicious of her intentions. Am I being to paranoid or would you do the same?! lol...
I told my mom that my daughter is being clingy today and the first thing she says is . Are you pregnant? 🤦🏻♀️
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
@alexisjordan.ky, all you can do love, is let him go. Let him have his space. And enjoy this time alone right now. Because like my situation .. I know he will come back .. they always do . Enjoy this time to bond with your baby for the few days before your baby is born.. relax .. because your baby can feel your stress and hear the fighting and yelling.. your baby can sense when you’re crying .. it affects them.. do not stunt him. I learned in my relationship, if I pretend to not care HE WORRIES lol bc he is so use to me giving a fuck.. if you pretend you don’t, he is like wtf ? So pretend u don’t care. Focus on you and that baby! He will be there in the delivery room.