Short version, the parents work the night shift at a prison and need somebody to watch their three…
Short version, the parents work the night shift at a prison and need somebody to watch their three children. During the day the oldest child Goes to School the middle child has to stay with me and the youngest baby goes to the mother so she can breastfeed him while she sleeps during the day. These children are basically now living with me, my husband, and our daughter. I only get $500 bucks a month for this crap. Also the mother does not produce enough milk for her son, the three month old baby, and wants me to basically breastfeed her son as well as my own child. Today of all days, the middle child who is staying with me was sitting on my couch. She was playing with her tablet and just finished eating breakfast and then peed on my couch and all over herself because she didn't want to get up. Let me remind you that she is 4 years old about to be 5 and she knows better. I am so beyond pissed off it's not even funny. The worst thing is, the middle child has been with me since Saturday of last week and has only seen her mother once and that was yesterday when she gave her mother a hug and a kiss when her mother was dropping off her siblings before she went to work. I'm having to teach the oldest two how to talk again because they both speak with a speech impediment and nobody corrects them or teaches them how to talk correctly. I'm also having to feed them every single day out of my own pocket. Plus I have to deal with them during the day especially if the school is closed so the oldest will be here as well. All while trying to keep them quiet so my husband can sleep because he works the night shift too. I only get $500 a month and I'm dealing with this crap. Oh I'm so pissed off!!!!!
China·
Having you breastfeed hers and yours? No.
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@junesmommy_15 yeah. Thankfully I make enough and can pump out 4 oz to feed her son with a bottle while I breastfeed my child... but yes she said I could breastfeed him if I didn't get enough in a bottle for him.
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@coookie I think I'm going to have to. I don't want to watch them anymore anyways...
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@coookie plus I'm a first time mom as it is. It's not like I have older children..
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Plus my 9 month old acts like she's almost 2. We're going to start potty training her soon.
China·
@kaytibug2009 How about she send him enough! I'm not against giving another child your breast milk. I fed a child that isn't mine for 6 months because my friend could not produce enough. However it was pumped.
It is not up to another woman to breastfeed your child. All of it is just too much responsibility for someone who isn't their mother and have a family of her own.
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@junesmommy_15 she doesn't send me any milk at all. I have to feed him or else he would starve at my house. All the milk she does pump while she's at work goes into her freezer.
China·
@kaytibug2009 some things you have to just say absolutely No to. This is one of those things. That just isn't right.