I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
I can't believe it My cousin stayed with me rent free from September 2015 to April 2016 and her stuff is still in my apartment. She's been saying she was going to come get her stuff for months. She text me this morning saying that she was going to come and get her stuff soon, and I asked her if I could have her air mattress. She tried to charge me $60 for it. The air mattress sells new for $35 on amazon and she didn't even pay $60 for it. I didn't respond and she just text me saying the $60 was for a microwave she bought me and her air mattress. When she got the microwave, it was a gift. Then when my son was in the hospital from October to January out of town, I was going to get my internet service turned off until I returned home. My cousin was doing school work online, so I paid for it while I was away so she could use it. I'm trying to figure out a response to her. ?
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Sara-Louise·
If Max hits me I just say a firm no and move him away. If he gets angry or comes back and tries again I'll say no again and I'll move away. If I'm saying no to him about something and he has a tantrum/ hissy 5mins I just leave him to it. It's best not to dwell on their reaction as it just escalates. Say no & redirect into something else to move on.
Sara-Louise·
And no your not alone! All kids have attitute at some point or another lol
Alisha Pomells ·
@sara-lou86 thank you so much I will keep doing what I'm doing then. I thought I had at least till 2 before all this started I guess not 😂
Kate Bodell·
One word.
Girls.
Francesca Louise ·
Ignore it my two are little sods my son hits his head of the wall constantly full blown tantrums in shops on after the other pushing each other all sorts xx @mum2sky
Alisha Pomells ·
@kayteamay 😂😂 couldn't have summed it up better myself x
@chesscalouise No Way! She's not there with doing it in public yet but I'm dreading it because she does all of that when she's at home and it's driving me wild x
Shannon Darbyshire·
Мама сына-младенца
When you find out let me know, my little brats doing the same thing and grabbing my skin really hard nipping and screaming and shouting smacking growling kicking he's such a little turd if I tell him no all he'll breaks loose and he pulls so hard on his hair and his ears I think he's gonna rip them off 😂😂 xx
Alisha Pomells ·
@shannonn95 😂😂 omg I shouldn't laugh that's my life right now. When I find the magical potion dw babe I will send it your way x
Laura·
Yes charlie has started biting and head butting things in temper! I hate to admit it but hes got a right attitude xx
muskaan·
Omg this sounds scary I think rayhans getting there he keeps head butting and growling :/
Alisha Pomells ·
@laurabump27 so does skyla I'm at my wits end seriously I can't say anything to this girl without her giving me back chat x @firsttimemummy86 growling 😂 hun it only gets worse from here sorry to say x