@leslie.a.barahona I hope everything works out for you, you deserve to have a stress free pregnancy. ❤️

Yeah your right and I will be I fell like he feels the same but she comes here and kinda does whatever cause she gets away with it with him. I’m not really a bitch but I’m going to be because all I want is some rest I’m 8 months pregnant with a super active baby and I’m exhausted all the time and can’t even sleep in my own bed 😫😫😫

My best suggestion is just on putting your foot down girl! After that text, my husband suggested maybe we could lay in her room with her till she falls asleep. I told him no, not happening. It's time for her to grow up. And he went along with what I said. Because I'm very verbal with how I feel about certain things and he sees how bad it can affect my mood dealing with her sometimes. And honestly he sees things I try to enforce is for the better. It's just hard on him because it's hard to be strict on her when he barely sees her @leslie.a.barahona

Omg yes !! And they know what they’re doing they do it on purpose I feel lol. Well the reason why she doesn’t like sleeping alone now is cause currently her mom doesn’t have a house and has been living with her sister for like the last year and they all sleep in one bed so she got used to it but honestly it’s my house I have different rules and on top of it I’m 8 months pregnant I’m literally sleeping on the couch right now cause I’m not having it

@leslie.a.barahona

@tiredmom thanks girl! ❤️

@myblessings feel free to message me anytime you need to vent.

@myblessings read through some of my old posts!! I sooooo get it. But fortunately for us, we now have custody. She can now wash her own hair, read, and feed herself.

@tiredmom sadly I'm glad others can relate. There were times I thought I was just being strict or a bitch . But she's almost in the double digits and my two year olds more independent than her 🙄

@myblessings OMG I feel your pain!!! My SD is 9 now and we still have to remind her to wash and brush her teeth. Because her mom will still help her!!!!! I get that I'm not very nurturing, but damn that's overboard.

@tiredmom thier agreement isn't set in stone, but we suppose to get her Friday after school to Sunday night. It's been like this for almost five years now. And that's another problem we face, she also has problems taking a shower or bath. We have to run it for her make sure the temperature is set because she "forgets" which one is hot and cold. We have to tell her which one is body Wash shampoo and conditioner and have to make sure she has a towel right even she comes out. Is ridiculous I can go on and on

@myblessings what's the custody agreement? Most of them will say that you can't down the other parent or their rules. When we first started getting my SD when she was 7 it was absolute HELL! She couldn't even wash herself! It took over a year for her to start overnights. How long has she been coming over?

@babyymomma13 she already does, she should encourage her to come over here to see her other parents and siblings despite how they feel about it. They just have to accept every household is different

I'm sorry but she needs to put her foot down ur SD is gonna run all over her I have a 4 year and a 1 year old that can sleep on their own

@kyandmadimommy Ugh girl it drives me crazy, our two year old can put herself to sleep. We just give her white noise and sometimes she crys but she goes to sleep within 30 minutes.

My 1 yo puts himself to sleep.... I definitely couldn’t deal with a almost 9YO acting that way