So.... Baby daddy and I aren’t together. We haven’t been since September because of the whole him cheating on me when I’m 2 months pregnant thing. He wants to be a “good dad” and “be here to help me out” since I’m getting to where I can’t do as much without getting sick or being in pain. I’m surprised his breath doesn’t smell because of all the bull shit coming out of it. He’s told me to my face 2 weeks ago that he’s only doing these things for me because he wants me back and he thinks that it’ll give him a better chance. That if he didn’t wanna be with me, he wouldn’t have done any of the things that he’s done the entire pregnancy. (Like he’s done anything besides be a selfish, stressful asshole anyway!)
Wait, wait. I take that back. He did buy the diaper bag, a bra for me, the crib, and useless material things that I didn’t want because I want my kid to have what she needs first. So, congratulations to him for buying HIS KID a $40 diaper bag, buying me a $40 fitted bra because I’m pregnant with HIS KID and my tits are a 38DDD now, and other useless things I told him to stop wasting money on because he has a child and one on the way. (I really do appreciate the crib though and I’ve thanked him over and over.)
Sorry guys. I really needed to vent this morning since he’s on his way to “spend time with the baby” that isn’t even born yet.
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- Send him to the couch.. he should know better than to try and cuddle you..
@beccaaalynnn11, it isn’t from stress. I hate sleeping next to anyone and he’s a cuddler and he fidgets a lot.
- Why no sleep ? You need sleep. Stress will make your baby come sooner. That’s why my baby is here so soon.
@beccaaalynnn11, he’s staying with me until a couple weeks after she’s born. He started staying with me last night too. I got NO sleep. I don’t know how I’m gonna put up with him for a month and a half.
- Exactly! May even cause more harm than good..
@beccaaalynnn11, he tells me how he wants us to be together for the baby’s benefit. I told him it’s not gonna do the baby any good if the mom hates the father and is miserable.
- I was dependent on my guy also.. horrible feeling.. he screwed me big time. I’ve got $2,000 of debt just because he didn’t pay the bills like he said he did. That guy sounds petty. It just affects the child. People forget that when they’re being selfish.
@beccaaalynnn11, the father knows he isn’t going on the birth certificate. I told him months ago and I told him why. I simply don’t trust him. He’s done so much to me that I can’t trust him. He threatens to take his ex to court about his first daughter all the time. He doesn’t have a good reason either. He just wants things done his way, not hers. He hates that she’s custodial parent and calls the shots.
I haven’t worked in about 5 months either and it’s been rough on me. I’m not used to depending on people, yet I’m having to depend on the one person I can’t trust. I hate not working and I plan on getting a job when my breast milk comes in fully and I can pump.
- My guy said he’d sue me for paternity. I didn’t put him on my boys birth certificate. Which would just make the uphill battle steeper for him. See that. Him doing that. That’s exactly what I don’t want. I’m not working. I haven’t worked in five months almost. :-/
@beccaaalynnn11, I’m sure they’ll favor you either way. You’re the one who takes care of your kids and provides for them.
No, we’re not married. Thank God! After the way he treats his first daughter’s mom and threatens to take her to court at least once a month because she didn’t give him his way with their daughter, I decided to not put him on the birth certificate. He’ll use my little girl as a pawn too and I’m not letting it happen. I’ll do just fine without child support too.
- My guy did the same.. haven’t heard from him in three weeks.. If he does take me to court, that’ll favor me I believe. You’re not married right ?
I’m just getting tired of him being selfish and having hidden motives for doing nice things. Then, he tells me I’m wrong when I confront him and he acts like a martyr.
@beccaaalynnn11, he got caught because the girl stepped up and told me and sent me the proof. I gave him multiple chances over 3 days to come clean before I told him I already knew and broke up with him. He even swore on his daughter and our unborn child’s lives.... If he would’ve come clean when I asked, it would’ve been better and I might’ve been willing to work on things. Not now!
- Yeah, men are dumb! He did good my first pregnancy, but after my loss, I was majorly affected. He said it was nice to talk to someone who wasn’t sad all the time.. Girl, exactly. What would be different now ? Did he tell you or did he get caught ? Mine got caught, and showed no sign of remorse..
@beccaaalynnn11, thanks girl! Sorry to hear about what he’s done. Mine just doesn’t understand that I don’t give second chances to someone who cheats on me. His reasoning for cheating was that I didn’t give him the attention he wanted and he was lonely. I didn’t give him attention because I was always sick and sleeping all days because I was PREGNANT.
- At least he’s trying. My fiancé, when I caught him cheating on me, with his Facebook official girlfriend (she had no clue) he blew up at me. Blamed me. Got physical with me. And hasn’t contacted me in almost three weeks. He knew my due date, knew my scheduled csection, and knew when I was having my early emergency one. He’s blocked me on everything after threatening to take me to court for custody. Single moms gotta stick together. Feel free to vent to me anytime! (:
@beccaaalynnn11, I hate being touched at all. It doesn’t feel good to have my skin touched. It doesn’t register in his brain when I keep telling him to leave me alone.