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Elisa Brookfield

So I just want some one to tell me something different...... I keep getting told it'll feel like period cramps and back…

So I just want some one to tell me something different......

I keep getting told it'll feel like period cramps and back ache......okay thats great but I was lucky enough to never really have cramps.during my periods so don't really know what that feels like.....and I've had back ache since I was 19 and fell off a horse which has beem progressively worsening my whole pregnancy.

The other one is "oh you'll know the pain is horrid" thats awesome but I went to school.for a week with an arm broken in 4 places before I realised I went to hospital because 'it didn't hurt that bad'.

I really don't know what anyone else can tell me but I feel so unprepared. I have no idea what to expect which makes me super nervous and then everytime I get a twinge Ifind myself wondering what is going on.

Take today for example. The baby has been moving loads, everytime I sit resting back on my sofa he is wriggling around like a gooden with feet poking out all over the place. At the same time I'm getting a sharp pain that feels like it could almost be in my kidneys. My hips are killing me so much so that I cannot put them together enough to cross one leg over the other. Everything feels swollen around thd pubic bine etc.

So really I guess I just have no idea what is going on and as a first time mum I have felt very much that 90% of pregnancy knowledge is left down to looking it up on the interent.

Has anybody else been in this position that could give me some advice? Or just tell me about their experiences??

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nattfish

Natalia

Мама дочки-младенца

I was worried just like you, and then exactly on due date my water broke (not like in the films - splash! All the water is on the floor; more like "am I peeing my pants or what? Sensation), so maybe you won't even have to analyse whether you're getting the 'right' kind of pain. Anyway, all the luck to you, and don't worry:)

mimibear

Amy

Мама дочки (1 год)

Normally your body has a good old clear out before labour lol with contractions your stomach continuously goes hard but you will honestly know the pain. It's takes your breath away. I was on my hands and knees at one point because they were so strong that I couldn't stand. X

elisabrookfield

Elisa Brookfield

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