This is going to be a personal/sexual type of post, so no further reading if that may offend or…

I would suggest go to Walmart and buy the his and her lube works great

it all depends on what you’re into. sexually.

@ashleyrod, honestly, not much ATM 😩😩 I used to be so adventurous and had a very healthy sex drive, it's like I've been robbed of the desire.

Have you tried handcuffs ?

@lynleesmom115, that’s okay to feel like that. once you’ve been with the same man, for most couples, their libido goes down. it’s normal! but if there’s nothing tbst interests you for YOURSELF

and you’re all about pleasing your husband right now. bc he’s been such an understanding man. just satisfy him. idk if he’s into anything like that. but sorry for being explicit right now. but maybe give him oral, a hand job?

I use the his and her lube and it's the best! Also maybe invest in some really cute lingerie it'll probably bring back the spark to your sex life that you've been looking for.

Its hard to suggest something good because you're pregnant. But b12 can increase libido. As well as zinc. Try a massage beforehand and just get relaxed. Essential oils like ylang ylang can increase libido so if you want to get some to add to massage oil that would work.

Just do your best to get relaxed and enjoy. Lots of foreplay and just laying skin to skin and kissing will help.

@ashleyrod, oh yes I know what you mean. I please him, trust me. I just feel like that isn't enough because it's all I've really done. I mean we have intercourse sometimes but it is t always enjoyable for me, and I want to enjoy it, I just don't know how

Make a movie. Watch porn together.

@lynleesmom115, i get it love. i read some other ladies comments and they gave great ideas. maybe try any of those especially the lingerie one, you’ll feel super sexy. so lingerie, great music in the background maybe? candles? chocolate covered strawberries.

@amberlycanelle, porn is a huge no. He used to have a problem with hiding it, and it made me have lots of insecurities because I was pregnant with my first daughter. So it's definitely a huge no for us. He would 100% refuse as well.

@lynleesmom115, I definitely understand!

just set it up for what you think is sexy and romantic.

hype yourself up. i know it’s been awhile. but just have fun and enjoy yourself. try to get into it all.

Lots of foreplay! Tease him and yourself. If it doesnt last long (sounds like it might be awhile since you two have been intimate) once you actually get it on there's always round 2 ;) If he's into it, nipple nibbling and suckling (some guys are weirded out by milk production) it might be TMI but that's definitely what turned me on and my man actually liked the taste of my milk so that wasn't an issue for us lol

Trust me, he will appreciate any effort you make because it is you <3

I didn't have much of a libido so we always began with plenty of foreplay.

@lovemygirls18 get it girl! ;) 😂

There is a lube that tingles for you and intensifies feelings and it’s flavored 😉