I always thought I wanted two children.. always..
Until I had Poppy, I now realise I'm happy with just the one. We are so lucky we have a wonderful life. We can enjoy several foreign holidays a year, we own our own house, we have nice cars, we are comfortable and I'm happy with how things are...
My partner doesn't agree. He's desperate for a second one and it's causing so many arguments. I don't know what to do. I'm at my wits end! It's ok for him he gets time away from being Dad he doesn't see all the super hard times!
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@catherineln25 I Was The Same I Had preaclamsia and then had to be induce 3 weeks early I was always in hospital and it was so hard xxx
@chloemcmahon96 I wouldn't mind but I was in and out of hospital with hyperemesis. I was admitted at 3 weeks pregnant with sickness and it all went downhill from there. I work and then spend 4 solid days with Poppy he can escape at work. It's so so so hard! Xxxx
@catherineln25 just tell your partner your happy at the min men don't understand how hard it actually is for us women I find it hard with 1 and I'm happy with 1 at the min maybe in the future I would have another but not right now just say you happy and your enjoying the memories with your daughter xx
@chloemcmahon96 poppy is so happy being on her own. She's the centre of my mum and sisters world and I think she would struggle competing with someone else for everyone's attention. I'm just so comfortable with how everything is. I like my designer clothes, shoes and handbags. I like having several holidays abroad. I just love how everything is. I can spoil Poppy. We save hundreds for her every month so she can buy a house when she's older and I don't know all that to be shaken up with another child. We wouldn't have the same type of life anymore. Poppy is going through her terrible two's as well and it's so so so hard! Xxx
I'm the exact same hun my partner wants another one already and I only had my baby girl 5 months ago and to be honest if I had it my way I just have the one but he says it's tight just having a lonely child xx
My partner works full time.. i work part time and the other days I'm at home with Poppy on my own. Although we are so lucky and get to do loads of fun things sometimes I just want a break and with two it would be even harder to get that break. I'm lucky I have amazing support off my mum and sister but his family don't help what so ever they see Poppy twice a year if that. I'm ripping my hair out over it all!
I am in the sane boat but vice versa. I want one more and he doesn’t. Its not easy being in this situation.
@chloemcmahon96 the men don't understand do they? They have it so easy! Xxxx