had an appointment today. baby boy is on track to come out between 7-8lbs. doctor said hes a little chubby but healthy ☺️
on the flipside. my next appointment is in 2 weeks n my ob said she’s going to do a vaginal exam 😕 i don’t like fingers down there or people looking. it’s awkward for me. i didn’t even get a pap smear til i got pregnant. i hope it doesn’t hurt too bad. im nervous 😬
@lavender13 😂😂 LOL too bad we weren't pregnant together. We could have ran out together. It's always better when you can run away with somebody else LOL LOL
@lavender13 Girl it's deff gonna be awkward but it only last a few secs thank goodness so you'll be good. I just pretended like nothing ever happened afterwards and scatted ass outta there!!
@mommylovescoraline, i think if im able to relax and zone out it’ll be okay. but awkward yes :/
It doesn't hurt, just awkward. I always had female doctors do it. No males.
@karrinaadriana, guess the best thing to do is just be excited to get it over with 😬
@lavender13, I don’t either I feel you and girl I haven’t had sex since right after I got pregnant and I’m at the end so I definitely was not ready for them to do all of that! Lol
@karrinaadriana, i don’t like fingers in there ever😣 and i haven’t been active in a while so ill definitely have to relax somehow
@lavender13, yeah just as long as you’re aware they go deep with their fingers lol it’ll be okay!
@karrinaadriana, oh wow 😅 im hoping i’ll be able to talk myself into relaxing enough to get through it alright. i think the first time is probably always the worst
I had to get checked to see if I was dilated recently due to early labor scare and I jumped Im not gonna lie lol she even warmed me “I have to get as far up as I can” I felt like she tried to shove her arm up there I was traumatized for a day or so but now I feel like when they do it again it won’t b as bad 😂🤦🏻♀️
@2016momof2, that’s what i needed to hear thank u lol
@lavender13, lol it’s the only time anyone touches your booty I promise!
@2016momof2, i understand the vag cause the baby come from there. i just need folks to stay away from my butt😂
@lavender13, lol 😂 just wait til you’re in the hospital about to give birth, everyone will be all up in your business.
@lavender13, lol it’s quick no worries !!
@2016momof2, oh my goodness i was hoping it was a lie 😩wish it was like a class n i could just skip that day
@lavender13, yeah there supposed to check your butt lol make sure you don’t have the infection. It was weird this time though, he stuck it up in there like helllooo wth doc.
@2016momof2, i heard for that test they check your butt too? idk if thats true for everyone or not😅
I actually had the strep b test and he checked my cervix. He was so rough omg I wanted to cry.
I hope yours goes better !
@boymom_, i may give a small hoot lol nah idk ill be in too much pain
@kartersmommyy, yeah im trying to keep that in mind lol
Just think of it as practice before giving birth 🙄 lots of people are gonna be in your room taking care of you when that time comes, legs wide open and all.. and trust me you will not give a hoot lol 💗
i was that way too but just imagine how many vaginas they see every single day lol & there’s gonna be a baby coming out of there soon so gotta get used to ppl messing w/ it 😂
Are there any effective ways & things I can do to help soften and dilate my cervix faster? At my appointment my doctor said I was MAYBE a fingertip dilated and 60% effaced.
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Doctor denied birth control,now I'm pregnant!
I called my doctor to refill my prescription and they said I would need to make an appointment, okay so I try to make an appointment but they no longer take my insurance since I'm no longer pregnant.
Y’all I did it!! I made the appointment to get my brows microbladed. I’m doing it on my birthday on December 9th
@lavender13 😂😂