Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Was it wrong for me to take Deandre phone because it took to long for him to complete his homework it’s not that he needed him he just wanted to play
Sara-Louise·
Typical toddler behaviour. Toddlers, often boys go through a banging or hitting head phase. I tried to redirect them into something else and not make a big deal about it & they usually stop doing it after a certain time. If it was to continue long term then perhaps seek advice. They don't know how to control their emotions at this age so they need steering in the right direction. Playdough, cushions, loud musical toys/ music can help if he feels he needs to let off steam. And if I was little I'd probably scream at strangers trying to talk to me too 😂 again just smile and say hello and then talk or show him something to take his mind off of shouting.
Emma·
Мама троих детей
@sara-lou86, thank you hun definitely good idea trying to change his direction etc . Haha yea very true he’s fine with people he knows just the strangers he doesn’t like 😂
Francesca Louise ·
Ignore him don't even tell him no its just a phase the more you draw attention to it the more he will do it xx @mrsxbx