Last night my boyfriend got mad at my son and afterwords he said he doesn’t know if he can do this anymore.... I was…

@littleonemorning, ya I’ve just been thinking really hard about what I want to do

@alyssa_hoffmaster, then he’s got to suck it up. He created those kids, he has to help with them, if not psychically then he can do it financially. 🤷‍♀️ you shouldn’t hold back for his actions and words. He doesn’t deserve you guys.

@boymom_,ya I was very upset but I also saw it coming with how he hasn’t wanted anything up do with us

@alyssa_hoffmaster well if he enjoys it that much then he doesn't deserve you guys there anyway. It should make him realize that he wants to keep you but maybe that's what you need to do so that you guys can figure out where you stand 😕 if I was in your shoes what he told would have completely broke my heart and I probably would have had nothing to say and just walked away

@boymom_, lol he’d probably like hat

I'd tell him good luck replacing me! And leave for a few days n let him get a taste of what he's asking for

@littleonemorning, my boyfriend said years ago that if we ever broke up and I made him pay child support then he would not be civil towards me

Thats selfish of him. Just remember if he “can’t do it anymore” there is a lovely thing called child support he’d still have to help with. 🙄 he clearly has some growing up to do. If you could, take the kids and yourself away for a little vacation and just ignore him.

@alyssa_hoffmaster, well after 12 years and 4 kids my husband and I are getting divorced. I'm terrified to be a single mom, but I know I can do it.... I know you can too!!! You have a whole support system of other mommas on here that will talk with you through the hard times!

@beautifulmomof4, I ranted to him and told him everything that’s been stressing me out and that I need help from him and we are a family and that’s what family is but he never said a word. Personally he probably doesn’t care. And last night when he said he doesn’t know if he can do it anymore I felt a bit relieved but at the same time I don’t want to need everything. Idk it’s been like this for a long time but progressively getting worse

@alyssa_hoffmaster, then tell him to grow up. That if he didn't want kids he shouldn't have done the dirty work. I told my husband that on Thanksgiving. When he told me we were 2 much for him.

@beautifulmomof4, yes he is

@lex105, ya he is pretty selfish.... I told him I just want attention once in awhile. I told him I want to snuggle and feel loved sometimes. Not all the time just sometimes and he said he’s not that type of person and I know it. Which I do know but he never is romantic, or shows me that he loves me or says I love you first or anything. He acts annoyed every time I talk to him while he is watching tv or on his phone which is literally all he ever does 😩

Is he the father of your kids?

He sounds like a child!!!! Tell him to stop being a manchild and enter adult world!!! Men are so stupid!!

That seems kinda selfish..