Dealing with a hard time right now😭 my cousins wife is so mean every time I see her she has to remind me and say it out…
Dealing with a hard time right now😭 my cousins wife is so mean every time I see her she has to remind me and say it out loud if I did not have my misscarage by in May of 2017 I would be due any time with my baby. I just can't bring myself to try again. I have and IUD and my husband and we say we want to wait until our son is 3. My cousin wife just don't understand she said the only thing that made her move on when she lost her baby was to try again. I can't do that I am not ready i feel bad I let her get to me but I know it was not meet to be and my time to have another baby when the time is right will be meet to be. What can I do to feel better about he always picking on me about it and not just letting it be. Need help I don't even know how to tell her nicely I don't like it I just feel so depressed and down whenever she reminds me.
Steph·
I am so sorry for your miscarriage. I have been there and I know how it feels. That’s beyond rude to say that to you every time she sees you. It’s not like you need a reminder every time you see her. I would say to her, maybe you don’t understand how it feels to lose a baby but it’s the worst pain imaginable and every time you say that, it bring up that pain and I would appreciate it if you would not bring it up! I am not ready to try again right now and when I am ready, I will know!
Alyssa Jean Fuller·
Мама сына (1 год)
@theycallmemommy she knows what the loss feels like to she has a miscarriage in February of last year and was pregnant again before May she is due any time now with a little girl. I don't know if it's because he is happy to be pregnant again and it going well this time or what but it hurts so much her telling me all the time I would be due soon. She got pregnant around the same time I did her planed mine was no. I did not know I was pregnant until the day before the miscarriage I did not even get to tell my husband before I lost it
Steph·
@davidmom, oh, sorry I missed that in the post! It’s great for her to be happy but she doesn’t need to be so rude to you! Maybe she doesn’t even realize that it’s hurting you. You definitely need to say something to her! Everyone deals with a loss differently too! I wanted to wait a long while before even trying again.
Alyssa Jean Fuller·
Мама сына (1 год)
@theycallmemommy we are waiting until our son is 3 he is only a year and half i want him potty trained before I try again. My husband and I have talk about it already have names picked out for girl and boy lol so I am happy and excited to try again just not now
Steph·
@davidmom, oh ok. There is nothing wrong with waiting! You have to do what’s right for you! Awe, that’s sweet! When the time is right, you will be ready!