@sadiesue0718, wow, she sounds like one amazing lady. That is awesome, you deserve to be a little spoiled! I’m sure she loves the time she gets with your daughter.

@sadiesue0718, so lucky!! I love it, that is so sweet

@lulu85_18, it's all good

I wanted a water birth, but the hospital only offers a hot tub to help with contractions...

@sadiesue0718, oh wow, that’s terrible. I just brought up the birthing center because we were just talking about coffee and judgments and I just had to laugh when I saw the Keurig in their office!

@lulu85_18, we don’t have a birthing center for at least 100 miles.... and only one hospital with a tiny NICCU within 30 miles. 2 of the 3 babies I know who have used it got life flighted 100 miles to go to a children’s hospital and both were there for a month or more....

All doing great now!

I wanted a birth center, it’s just not an option....

For the record: I just visited my birthing center for the first time and they have a Keurig in the waiting room with all the fixings. This office was a judgment-free zone. Absolutely loved the place! These midwives understand coffee is not the enemy! 😁

@sadiesue0718, lmao right! I was just like I don’t drink soda just water so a medium iced coffee won’t hurt

Lol who cares about iced coffee, I honestly drink that whenever I can

@alyssa_hoffmaster, right! As long as you're not downing cup after cup after cup in the same day we are allowed to drink a caffeinated fucking beverage!!!

FOR GODS SAKE!!!! We need help pooping!!!!! LOL

I get my iced coffees at McDonald’s and I used to work there so some of them still know me so I would get iced coffees a couple days a week and every time I got them they said you shouldn’t drink coffee I’ve never met a pregnant woman drink coffee.... like bitch I’m aloud to drink coffee if I want 😂😂😂

My doctor told me it was ok to have a cup of coffee while I was pregnant with my son. I walked into the doctors office and had plenty of nasty looks as I was drinking my iced coffee. The doctor even said something to me about it and I looked at her and said "well you said it was ok for me to drink coffee".

@ash621, thank you. She is!!! We aren’t the only people she spoils like this either. Her girlfriends get treats. She donates to a bunch of places, and to the vets home.

@lulu85_18, she was so embarrassed, just smiled then went on her phone lol people sometimes....

@sadiesue0718, wow, she sounds like one amazing lady. That is awesome, you deserve to be a little spoiled! I’m sure she loves the time she gets with your daughter.

@ash621, they spoil the hell out of us all the time!!!

His mom is a bipolar alcoholic, and his dad works with him but hasn’t bothered to make an effort to see our daughter in over a year, doesn’t ask about her or our pregnancy.

So his aunt has really stepped in and became more of a mom figure and is just so good to us! Her daughter is a POS and even though aunt bought her daughter more stuff then she buys our daughter (which is A LOT) she won’t let her see her 2 grandkids. She is a straight up bitch!

So she comes from out of town 30 miles to baby sit our toddler so I can concentrate in my doctors appointment. She comes in so we can have a date night like once a month. She never complains! She is literally our Angel (which is her nickname).

@raelene_g, lol. What did she say? 🤣🤣

@sadiesue0718, so lucky!! I love it, that is so sweet

@ash621, lol I only get them when my aunt gets them for me. So I'm pretty spoiled like that!

I would have been staring out of jealousy 😉😉😂 an iced coffee sounds so good right now

@lexirosex3, the meth problem in my valley is outrageous!!!

@mom2bei, the worst was people staining at my numb bc my belly button was sticking out so much!!!

This time I'm going to use nipple pasties so it's not so noticeable.... LOL

I had one woman staring at my bump trying to figure out if i was really pregnant i stared right back at her like may i help you. Ppl just dont know how to mind their own

I went to my last appointment with one and this Woman would not stop staring at me, even my husband was like what’s her problem... but by the end of it I asked her if she’d like a selfie of me 😂

@lulu85_18, right!

WOW SMH🤦🏻‍♀️

You’re allowed to drink coffee! Why are people so judgmental? 😒