So my sons hair is natural curly I never do anything to it only put baby oil an lotion in it an just leave it I think it should be natural I want his hair to grow and just leave it alone if he decides to cut it when he’s 18 fine by me but for now I want his natural hair I never pull it back I make sure that I tell everyone NEVER pull his hair back just please don’t, an today I go in to have surgery AND I come back home my son stayed with my mother in law an she pulled his hair back into a pony tail IM PISSED she never respects my wishes she always has something to say or do!!! I have no one to talk to my husband thinks its funny an cute like no why when you know how I feel smdh #annoyed I can’t even rest!!!