So my in-laws came and got my youngest and didn't even think to take my oldest daughter with them shes not biologically theirs but my husband claims her as his should I feel a certain type of way or its not that serious?
I just feel like in a way its showing favoritism 🙄🙄
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@proudmommyoftwo_, let them ALL know that this is the last time you see DD1 hurt and this is the LAST time you feel hurt for her.
@queenmee Exactly girl im soo hurt now my daughter just sitting here playing with her toys by herself with a sad face like bruh 😭😭😭
@proudmommyoftwo_, I don’t play, I would send a text to my in laws stating that if they cannot take both of them, then they cannot take either of them. I grew up with grandparents who hated me but LOVED my brothers and sisters. I got hand me downs and shut out- while they got lavish gifts and lots of love. I know what favoritism feels like and soon your daughter will too. I hated my mom for always putting my in a position where I felt like I was less than.
If your husband truly felt your eldest was his , it would’ve been a no brainer and he should’ve called his parents out for doing such
“Sorry MIL&FIL , once I married proudmommyoftwo..I took in the role of being a father to DD1. If you cannot show the same respect and love to BOTH OF MY DAUGHTERS , then I’m sorry to say you won’t be able to have a relationship with either of them.”
This is something that shouldn’t be rugswept, DD1 deserves love and attention too.
@pettybetty @suzzie. @queenmee Im just trying to figure out and understand how could you do a 3 year old so wrong 🤔🤔 my daughter is soo good shes an average kid all she likes to do is play and eat like how could you just single her out like shes nothing girl im so hype right now shit got my eyes watering up because of how my daughter was looking when her sister left bruh
@proudmommyoftwo_ I would not deal with that but my kids don't go with anyone tho. My mans dad and step mom way of things is not approved for me and the 2 older boys dad is not in picture to be honest. But he sees them 2-3x a yr and I would not trust him to take his kids anywere and bye law I don't have to with full custody but his grandparents do bring somthing small for the baby when they come just out of respect. And I'm supprised he does since he can't even provide for his 2.
@proudmommyoftwo_, I would just have a talk w your man bout it. Maybe he can then have a talk w his parents that kids don't understand n that she was hurt over it.
@queenmee Girl it was just a all of a sudden thing its like i didnt even have a say so tbh my husband left for work and he called me and told me that they was coming to get her by then his parents was knocking on the door im like wtf smh they other grand daughter is there shes around the same age as my youngest like okay and they make it seem like my oldest is 10 years old or something shes not that much older than them my daughter loves to play she plays with her sister all the time like thats a fucking excuse girl im heated asf right now I could literally cuss them mfs tf out right now on my mama bruh
Oh I'd defintely feel some type of way...
And one thing that needs to be stressed to your husband is that once you guys got married, you joined families. So for his family to single out one of your kids is FUCKED UP ON SO MANY LEVELS
@suzzie. Exactly like how are you going to take one and not the other 🤔 girl i sent my husband a long ass paragraph on how I feel about that we probably going to start arguing but i could care less because the shit is fucked up.
I don’t EVER let my in laws treat my two kids differently from my youngest.
My #1 rule is no favoritism.
If you cannot refrain from doing so, you cannot have contact. I will not allow them to make my other two kids feel left out. Family is WHO YOU MAKE IT, and by them not taking your eldest should speak volumes. Your household isn’t a division, it’s a whole and if they can’t respect that then they shouldn’t be allowed to pick up your youngest
I would feel some type of way that's me tho. Who cares its the fact of not making the child feel some type of way.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
its time
On our way to the hospital!!
I feel horrible because i dont want to be pregnant. I mean i was excited and everything when i found out. Mlre so shocked. But as time is going on, i just dont want to be pregnant. Is that an ok thing to say? Although i already love this little girl and thats mostly why i feel bad for feeling that way. Not sure if something is wrong with me or its just im over it now because i feel like this pregnancy is dragging on
Ugh it really makes me feel a certain way when I see a little girl with a crop top smh. 🙄
Do you girls still shave your vag? Since my belly is getting bigger it's starting to get in the way :/ its hard to now I feel like I'm going to cut myself
@queenmee I inboxed you 😭