Ladies do your SO help with kids if not what do you do ? And if he does do you express gratitude?

@mimimommyof2, 😂😂😂 yessssss

My husband does it n his own. But sometimes I still need to ask him. And yes I'd show gratitude even though he'd say I didn't have to but I'd still do. That makes him feel good to know that lil thing he does, naturally, is appreciated. So he does without a heavy butts.

@littleonemorning, oh yea I think I’m saving up for the fun day!!! Lol can’t wait but I DO WAIT

@mimimommyof2, cook him his favorite dinner!! Or a massage, at least until you get cleared for the good stuff 😏

Thank you ladies for your comments. I fortunately have a great man that does everything for me cleaning helps with kids etc even after a day of working I feel like I wanted to do something for him but it’s true I didn’t do it alone but I can’t help but feel guilty because he’s so awesome you know! Ugh thank you all!! @theycallmemommy, @jsco, @morganmommy79, @eryka616, @zachattackmomma, @littleonemorning, @zachattackmomma, @momofboth, @mommysbabies,

My husband helps out. I am with the boys more because he is at work a lot but he helps whenever he can. More falls on my shoulders because I am the one running to karate, soccer, School, etc but if he can go, he will do it with me. He gets a home cooked meal every night, clean house and sex so he doesn’t complain. 😜

@morganmommy79 he definitely needs to go see a doctor. Our relationship was basically over unless he went and got help and it has been such a big difference. There's no way I would still be with him if he wasn't on medication

@jsco, my husband won't be seen by a dr. He's always depressed too and always unhappy and moody. Everything sets him off. Low self esteem. Short fuse. Extreme lows. He has 2 brothers and a sister. They all have issues. ADD, ADHD, depression. Their mother has been institutionalize for depression and mental issues. All from an alcoholic abusive father and husband. That's a lot of our marriage problems. I just don't know how to help him or handle it. I don't understand it much at all.

@morganmommy79 he's got clinical depression, add, adhd, anxiety. He also had a really rough childhood and a lot of his suppressed emotions and memories came out when our son was born.

@jsco, if you don't mind me asking, what kind of things does he deal with mentally? I'm asking because my husband has social anxiety and has no friends and is always worried about everything. He has an abusive childhood and I think it really messed him up. He just stays to himself a lot.

My husband rarely helps. Now that the baby is older he's helping a lot more with her but he won't touch dishes or laundry or anything household really. In the summer he mows the grass faithfully. But when he does things out of the ordinary I definitely praise him for it because I appreciate it and want him to know that. When he doesn't help I simply have a conversation with him whether it be face-to-face or through text and tell him I'm exhausted and need him to step up but I don't put him down by doing that or he won't listen.

My husband has severe mental health problems so I did basically everything for about 9 months. Now that he's getting better and helps I do show gratitude because I know some things are hard for him to deal with.

He picks up the slack when I can’t and I always express my gratitude because he works and then to come home and help me makes me very grateful

He helps when he can. Even if he gets home late from work, he always offers to do the dishes and put bubs down for the night. And on his days off, I barely have to lift a finger unless needed. He’s all about teamwork in our house. Thankfully!

@zachattackmomma, I like how you worded that!

We are a team in our house. We only speak highly of each other in front of the kids and he always helps when he’s home.

Yes my husband helps when I need it . and I just do the stuff I normally do as a good wife lol . But honestly I didn't make the babies alone so he supposed to help .

My husband helps and no because I did once and he told me that it’s his job they are his responsibility not just mine