First of all before I post this, I do believe if you spare the rod, you spoil the child, but at the…

First of all before I post this, I do believe if you spare the rod, you spoil the child, but at the same time...there is such thing as spanking and getting onto your kids too much. That being said, I just "spanked" (not hard just popped her on the butt a few times) my daughter for hitting her cousin in the head with a Barbie and making her cry. My heart is shattered and I feel horrible. That was my first time really spanking her and omg 😭💔😭💔 that was the hardest thing I've ever done. 😩