Ok ladies I need HONEST opinions. This is my sperm donor. Well I ended up finding his family on Facebook after I googled his name. I am now stuck at what I should do. I want carson to know his biological family as much as possible. These people have never heard of me doesn’t know about carson at all. I guess I’m just nervous about how to approach the situation.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
I’m 19 and pregnant and I don’t know anything about being pregnant and all that stuff. Someone please help.
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.
cantdeletebutimgone·
If it were me in this situation I would go ahead and throw out a line to as many as I can find and I would basically say something along the lines of my name is so-and-so we've never met I was in a relationship with so-and-so we have a child together and I just feel like it's important for him to know the rest of his family even if his father is not involved. I was unaware of any of you until I came across you on Facebook and I am extending an invitation to get to know my son. I would say something also along the lines of how you felt like it's unfair to not only him but them to not know he exists. You never know you might get lucky and all of them will want to get involved even if it's just one or two that's still something.
Steph·
I like what @mommiesaremagical14, said! If they don’t respond to you, then you will know where they stand. It may be very shocking to the family especially if they aren’t even aware their son had a child with someone. I am sorry your child’s father doesn’t want to be in his life.