Well it’s official my bd said he doesn’t know what he wants. He just needs time and space to think. He’s not ready to be a dad how we should have thought of this b4 and blah blah blah. So I’m officially single. MY son will have my last name (well maiden name) and I will do this without him. He’s choosing his “job”’ over his family. Yeah that 6,000 dollars you wanted me to stash at my house for u yup u won’t b getting that back I will keep that all and put it towards our son that your not ready for.