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Courtney Sutton
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Some advice. So my current partner has been great but lately has been coming home from being out with work mates…

Some advice.

So my current partner has been great but lately has been coming home from being out with work mates smelling like weed I mean he tries to cover it up but can never fool a pregnant women's nose. I've explained to him before when he asked me if he could smoke it why I didn't want him smoking as I don't want it around me or my daughter and I've had bad experiences with it that I won't go into. He played stupid yesterday and tried to cover it up and only admitted it this morning because I told him I'm not stupid so if he wants to tell me something to tell me it now. I got extremely upset that he'd go behind my back, his excuse was he didn't think it was worth mentioning. He's been stressed as his brother can now come out on tag and my partner really dislikes his brother so I understand he's stressed but to go behind my back like that has pissed me off.

I've told him I want some space and that I think we should go on a break for a bit.

Am I over reacting or???

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kirikatrina

Kiri Torkoniak

Personally i dont think that you are. You are thinking for your family not just yourself. Hope everything goes okay xx

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linkofhyrule

Courtney Sutton

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@kiri.k.t8 thank you

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hayleyf

hayley fletcher

@linkofhyrule, I don’t think you are either, I had two previous relationships where they smoked it and it’s horrendous what it can do to people, stand your ground on this one as if u let it go, you already know yourself by the sounds of it that it can be so much worse x

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chesscal

K

Your not over reacting x @linkofhyrule

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arlosmomma

Shannon Darbyshire

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You're not over reacting, if he feels that having a bit of weed is worth upsetting you over then it just makes him look ridiculous, everybody gets stressed sometimes ridiculous but there's other ways to deal with it rather than turning to that it's no excuse x

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chloemcmahon96

Chloe McMahon

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It's not stupid atal hun it's totally acceptable to not want him smoking weed and it will get to the point where if he's hiding that you might start to think he's hiding other things aswell not saying he is but that how I think.. He shouldn't have to smoke weed just cos he's stressed either x

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