Question :: when you found out that you were pregnant , did your sex life go away for awhile or did it get better...or…

@gallofamily.6, oh we've had the conversation ever since I've been pregnant . He just doesn't like that I don't like sex like he does. At first I was forcing myself to do it just to satisfy him but of course he didn't like that either so I'm just to the point where it's like "what do you want from me.!" He's always asking me how do I think our sex life is going to go once our son gets here and I keep telling him idk . The more he talks about us not having sex the longer I don't wanna have sex . It's like peer pressure and he doesn't get it . I've even told him "if sex means that much to you, we can just break up and coparent together" ..that's how frustrating it is

@ljsmommy22, yea we couldn't do missionary either smh . We are now only limited to cowgirl, spooning & anything else that doesn't hurt lol

Yes we stuck to missionary for awhile. It hurt horribly to do anything so that's all we did and it still hurt

@teebear74 my husband always took advantage of the opportunity because he is a big sexual person and when I'm pregnant I like all versions of sex. So we were always fucking. But he still gave love so that was nice too. It's really a conversation you should have with your s.o. because if there is an issue it should always be mutal.

@ljsmommy22, yea me either . For a long time , it hurt like hell. And even now , we can't do doggy because it feels like I'm tearing inside and that shit is not even close to being pleasant

Yea I know what you mean in the beginning I couldn't stand it

@ljsmommy22, well if that happens , that'd be a big change for me from before and during

Maybe it'll hit you soon and you'll want it all the time😏

@gallofamily.6, like what was or is your experience with being pregnant as far as your sex life.? Were you not in the mood, were you in the mood ...how did your partner react to your mood

@ljsmommy22, dang . If I had that , my fiancé wouldn't complain .

@teebear74 like how you mean

Oh yeaaaaaa girl😂 @teebear74 once or twice at least

@lizyetter_1991, that's good . My fiancé ...he thinks it's good to completely go away but I told him he likes sex more than I do and always has . And he doesn't realize that sometimes when I want it, he ruins the moment for me and then I don't want anything to do with him cuz he brings up the fact that we don't have it as much as he would like

@ljsmommy22, lol okay 👏🏽 you still do ?

He understands it. But I’m working on it to get it back

I wanted it every day lol

@lizyetter_1991, how does your partner react to that now that's it's completely gone

Mine went away after the morning sickness full on hit. And now my daughter is 17 months old and it’s still gone.

@crystal.newman, lol oh lawd . Yea, sometimes I'd gag before he even finishes

@teebear74, girl...I used to throw up. Every. Single. Time. He finished. So if I was on top or bottom or what I’d say okay get off and run to the bathroom. Puke forever. So for a while I wasn’t comfortable having sex. Luckily he didn’t care.

@jordyn_beth, and how did he react to that

@vspinktink, yea me too , I didn't want to even be touched most days

@crystal.newman, yea that's how I am . I don't want it at all sometimes but when I do want it, he wants things done that I can't necessarily handle that specific day. Like I get really nauseous and that affects me giving head the way he likes me to, shoot, the way I like to . Like I set an expectation for myself so if I know I can't achieve that, then I'd rather just not do it

@gallofamily.6, yea I know that , but I just wanna know how other people deal with it

It definitely changed. At some points we did more, many times we did less. I just told my boyfriend what I was feeling

It went away the entire first and second trimester I was disgusted by sex til about 30 weeks

Um sometimes I’d be like super in the mood and sometimes I didn’t even want to be kissed. But even when I was in the mood I didn’t want anything done to me I just wanted to make my husband happy. So I’d take care of him and then myself later because I couldn’t really handle penetration or his strength of how he touches me. Mainly because my vagina and the outside of my vagina is extremely swollen and sensitive right now and hubs doesn’t know how to be gentle. Some women dig that sensitivity but me not so much.

It depends on my hormone level