Okay it's late and I need to vent/ ask for advice. (long post)
Okay it's late and I need to vent/ ask for advice. (long post)
So I'm 9 weeks pregnant I'm not with the father but I am with someone, an ex who I have trust issues with due to him being unfaithful in the past. We're just trying things out and he's seemed to have changed and I love him like a lot and I want to trust him and I do but not enough for him to be away for six weeks in Georgia for work. I have a history with depression issues and this past week it's been getting pretty bad with him being gone and me not trusting him that much, I'm always questioning my self worth now, I'm not getting much sleep because I'm up late over thinking and trying to see if I can catch him being on Facebook when he says he's a sleep (it's bad I know😓), I've not had any desire to do anything throughout the day I just want to lay on the couch and watch tv, and I've now been questioning myself about having a child (which I definitely want and already love it so much). What should I do? Not only about my depression but about how I feel about the guy I'm seeing who I love deeply?
deleted-user·
You should get some counseling stat.
Crystal·
Girl you’re 9 weeks pregnant and stressing tremendously. I personally believe it should be about you and the baby’s wellbeing before a man. Especially if he’s been unfaithful. If you keep stressing like this there’s a good chance you could miscarry and you think you’re sad and depressed now. You got a whole other thing coming to you. And here’s a life tip. If they’ve done it once they will do it again. It might not be in the few days or months or maybe even a year but it will happen. I think you should do something and take your mind off him and also think about how you’re gonna get big and swollen and every other thing in a few months. If he hasn’t cheated on you yet there’s a good chance he will later because some men just don’t find pregnant women attractive.
Chazz·
On a positive note. I agree that you should focus on you. But as far as the guy goes. Just get to a point within where it is what it is. You do you. And trust he’s on the straight and narrow until you are shown otherwise. Because when you treat a man like they are guilty. That’s what could make them start doing things. This Is a time for you to focus on you. So put you first. 👍
Chazz·
If you need someone to talk to I’m here. I’ve been through the same exact thing you’re going through. And I ended up miscarrying. So relax. And take a breath for your self and your baby
Dom·
I know how you feel, I went thru the same thing just recently. Message me if you need someone to talk to. 💙