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Malaina Heka
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I’m so disappointed in the ultrasound tech that did my growth scan today. She didn’t tell me anything about my baby and…

I’m so disappointed in the ultrasound tech that did my growth scan today. She didn’t tell me anything about my baby and her skills as a tech were extremely poor. I couldn’t see a thing when she was going over his body and my SO was also really upset that this lady wasn’t even trying to make it clear for us. The last time I saw my baby was 10 weeks ago at my anatomy scan, and even then I didn’t even get to see him because my SO didn’t want me to know the gender till our reveal. :( it’s so upsetting and frustrating that I literally haven’t actually seen my baby since I was 10 weeks and even then he was just a bean. 😞 Not to mention that she didn’t even try to look for fibroids and pretty much told me that it was all in my head when I went to the hospital for pain back then... 🤦🏻‍♀️ The reason for this u/s was to check on my fibroids because my midwife was concerned about them and instead she doesn’t do anything and just calls me mental?! 😡 Ugh! My SO was pissed. And the stupid lady didn’t even try to get a good picture of him and just gave us a picture of a blob. 🤬😡😡😡😞😞

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miaheka

Malaina Heka

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@redheaded_inkednurse, I would, but it was done at the hospital, not my midwive’s office so I doubt they’d even care or do anything about it. 😞

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itsjusmebaex

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Omg I had the same experience with one of the nurses that did my anatomy scan last week, I was finding out the gender and she was just so horrible with communication. It pissed me and my mom off so bad because I go to a obgyn with their own office and it’s required to see different doctors every time I go, and every nurse I’ve seen up to that point were so nice and fun. But her? Kinda took the experience away, this is my first also. There were still tears of joy when she told me the gender (girl) but still.. it’s like moments like that are so genuine and major to all mothers. Whether it’s for first time mothers or mothers who’ve been there before.

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aliciam030303

Alicia M

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@malainaheka23 see if your midwife will do a scan at office exsplain that your very upset and need to see so you can calm down

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