So my boyfriend and I are both 20. Soon to be 21. We’ve been together three years(with a couple break ups and recently had our biggest one) iWant us to work especially with our first child on the way. We love each other but with us being so young iFeel like the odds are stacked against us. When we broke up this last time, he had no problem moving on and doing his own thing while iWas in tears everyday for almost two months. Has anyone else had a break up while pregnant or shortly after having your baby? How did you deal ? How do you feel now?
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@mauriepplz I get that completely... It sucks and it's sad and I know your hurt because even though I didn't want to tell him the situation sucked because it's not how I wanted my first child and family to turn out like.. But your daughter having her dad is better than not having him at all.
iThink he’s going to be a great dad. He is so excited about having her I’m just not sure how long me are going to make it. and iNever wanted to be a “baby mama” while he’s off with his new girl @alanasmommy81815,
I was pregnant and my daughters dad didn't know until she was about two... I never told him but it was for a good reason.. To be honest it was the best choice of my life and the hardest.. I never put him on the birth Certificate or anything.. It was a struggle but I out her first in every way and we've been doing amazing. He makes no effort whatsoever now that he knows.. It work and it gets overwhelming but if you keep your head up and keep pushing for you baby you can do anything 🙌🙌🙌🙏
I tried to make it work with my son’s father during pregnancy but it was constant fighting and he cheated. So 2 months after my son was born, I finally put an end to it and I couldn’t be happier. Sadly, he’s on the birth certificate and doesn’t do much for my son but I’m happy with myself and my little guy