This is just so annoying, so I am trying to sell things that we bought when our daughter was born like ex. travel system with carrycot ect stuff we dont use anymore and taking up space at the in laws where we are currently living. I am in need of money due to being out of work for qlmost 2 months now and getting in debt. So i told my mother in law about it and she has been like oh but arent you thinking of having more kids, i'm like yeah but in 3 or 4 years time not now... i want to start my studying as soon as i can and i need a proper income to help with bills ect as my OH cant pay everything on his salary alone. She just keeps pushing me to keep the stuff... I am so annoyed at this. I understands what she means but its pointless hoarding these things until you need them in a few years. I would go out of my mind if I was pregnant again... not ready for another one yet