Repeat repeat repeat repeat...thats my life just a giant revolving door of repeat stuff. Apparently I need to make a…
Repeat repeat repeat repeat...thats my life just a giant revolving door of repeat stuff. Apparently I need to make a giant statement in this house to prove I'm fucking serious when I say I'm done with the bullshit. I took on 3 kids that are communication impaired and I pretty much have absolutly no help from their father(not that theres much he will do besides yell at them and that doesn't help) and I'm not sure if I can handle it all anymore. its only been a year(since we got custody) but Between him and them I feel like I'm going insane. I pray my son has a better life. I've never seen such delayed kids(without a diagnosis)I try SO hard to blame everything on their mother but some things I just can't. She is responsible for most things but after a year of repeating myself im pretty sure some things should stick here and there. I'm frustrated and venting im sorry. I seem to be more miserable lately and I have no release. 😭
Rosi Toews·
Praying for you!!!! That's alot on your plate! =(
Megan ·
Your an good woman for taking on that HUGE responsibility! I admire you for that! Just remember it won't last forever! Try to enjoy the little things (if there is any) three girls around that age is tough! I couldn't image... God wouldn't give you anything that he thought you wouldn't be able to handle. Plus your hormones are all crazy right now. I know it's better said then done but just take an few steps back and I'm sure everything will fall into place.. stay strong momma. I'm here if you ever need to vent or talk 🙃 hope your day gets better!
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I mean this is the NICEST way possible. But if your husband’s kids need help, that’s for a professional, and not you.
My sister in law is working at a special needs school and it’s VERY hard on her, a professional, I can’t even imagine how it is on you as a mom who isn’t their biological mother. I know nothing other than what you’re saying now, but if they haven’t been diagnosed yet, then you should start there and get them some actual help. Get them an aid or an advocate after getting diagnosed, you need help.
And stand up for yourself. Scream it from the roof top if you have to. Leave him at home, with the kids, go to Dunkin’ Donuts and get a hot chocolate and sit in the car until he realizes he’s alone.
I know how you feel.
Chasidy Corbel·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@fasciamom I say undiagnosed but I guess it is in some way. They all see a councelor for ptsd, they all have IEPs and receive extra help in school for being so behind with communication and reading/writing. They just cant seem to grasp anything in the real world. Especially the oldest. If its not written on paper she can't comprehend it or shes just too damn lazy and doesnt care to. I've started seeing a professional myself in the last few months because I dont know how to handle them appropriately. sometimes I get so frustrated I just want to scream and yell and that's obviously not going to help anyone. It sucks that my husband is always working so I feel like I'm doing this on my own most the time. Im just super overwhlemed I think. I appreciate your advice i might just have to do the dunkin drive even if its just to get away for a few minutes to breathe. 😥
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@xchas, I understand you completely, I know what it’s like to feel like your talking to the floor and expecting it to talk back. Maybe there’s a special school in the area that can help her/them? We have quite a few in my state. Something obviously needs to change because you shouldn’t have to live your life for someone else’s problems. I did the dunkin drive last night