My family needs to stop doing for one kid and not the other. My other two nephews my mom and grandma…

Thats messed up

@momma_dee, tell me about it. They just say they had their own, they don’t need to raise more but yet they do it for my nephews so I don’t get it.

@caityyy_lynnn, kinda have a similar situation. My MIL has her other grandson way more than she does my daughter.. but I can honestly say its bcus shes sexist & her grandson is her favorite (I can just tell...) it hurts, but dont make excuses for them, it is what it is. The way I see it: theyre lost. We dont need them, we got this 💪🏼

@caityyy_lynnn, ugh! I feel your pain and frustration! That’s exactly how my mom is with me. I only ask for help if I need to go to the doctors and she complains all the time. She just watched my sisters kids for 4 days while they went to a different state on their motorcycle! It’s super super annoying to me! She watches my other sisters son every day! It’s come down to her complaining so much that sadly our relationship has deteriorated! It breaks my heart so deeply! But she made it this way no matter what I say or do to improve our relationship and the situation she just won’t budge. At the end of the days it’s actually making me stronger though! It’ll make you stronger too! It’s definitely going to be a struggle but it’ll make you stronger!

That’s exactly what my mom says too! “I had my kids already!”

@blessedmama09, @momma_dee, I just feel like their more excited about my nephews than my daughter and it’s frustrating.. like I only ask them to watch her when I’m trying to shower, eat and go to the bathroom.. like I’m afraid to ask them to watch her for an hour or two this weekend because they will complain but they will do it for my sisters..

@caityyy_lynnn, I feel you completely! That’s how my mom is she favors the fuck out of my sisters kids! I’d say ask! If she gets upset then you know where you stand. She’s so little still.

@caityyy_lynnn, sorry to hear. Is there anybody else that can watch your daughter?

@momma_dee, nope. I wish. @blessedmama09, I bring it up all the time and get ignored.

My in laws are the same way, they’ll take my boyfriends niece and nephew for the weekend but won’t even bother to ask if we need a sitter.

It’s sad how “family” always has favoritism

@daylenerebecca, it’s been like this for me for years. I just wasn’t expecting my children to face it as well.

@caityyy_lynnn, I hate that! It’ll go on until you put an end to it. It’s going to be hard. But you are only getting stronger! I’m finally just starting to work myself out of the frustration and heartache. I bitch all the time on this app about it. But I want to stop. My mans mom is in a different state and may his dad Rest In Peace. So the only help we can get is my fam and they are all dysfunctional. It sucks!

@blessedmama09, same girl, same. I didn’t think I’d have to beg for help.

@caityyy_lynnn, ugh! I know! Me too! It’s so sad! I’m like ummm and why did they decide to keep me! Literally should of just gave me up for adoption! My mom found out my dad was trying to live a double life and had another woman and more kids but she still stayed with him and had me and my sister. I don’t talk to my dad right now because he flipped out on me on mother’s day he was all drunk. My mom has always treated me like a black sheep since I was a child but since my dad acted out the way he did I told him I will not tolerate it! I’m trying to be a good example and mother to my children and to have him around after he disrespected me hardcore and while he’s drinking is unacceptable especially since Ive been battling a lot this year within myself. I need love and support. So my dad and I haven’t talked and my moms all upset about it. I’m like whatever! You guys made me like this! Straight up! People get tired! And me I’m tired of their shit! It’s so sad because Family shouldn’t be like this but you can’t change people! You can’t keep hurting yourself because at the end of the day that’s what you’re doing. There needs to be an end to your sadness.

@caityyy_lynnn, I tell my mom I love you mom and I can but I can’t force her to be in my life. I for give my dad but there’s so much a person can take.