Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
I swear he makes my day! My SS came over and first thing he did was hug me and said happy Mother's Day! I swear I cried when I went to lay down in bed, I literally just walked in the door from an hour walk, I took off my shoes and I hear a knock it's him and grandpa Phil lol and I swear this boy is amazing lol.
Rant: Dishes! Does anyone else just HATE doing dishes? I would rather do any other chore over dishes. What household chore do you hate doing? P.s. I actually love vacuuming and folding clean warm laundry.
Been watching Seeking Sister Wives, would you do it? Share your husband? Personally I would be happy to join a family but I don’t think my partner has enough love or patience.
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I’d be upset, if we cooked together we clean together. It’s common sense.
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Maybe they were raised different? I know with my family we help clean up first and then if the person hosting suggests to take food we pack food and go.
Elle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@denisse.m, @t143, it’s literally taken me all last night and today to clean all of the pots and pans and platters and dishes and cooking utensils everywhere. We cooked so much food! I would never do this to anyone. I feel like they just don’t respect me at all.
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@aboutellesbabes, It’s like they don’t care and at that you’re pregnant that’s even worse to do to someone, i would had said something to my boyfriend side of the family. I wouldn’t do anything for next year. If they want thanksgiving they can host at their place.
Tiff·
Yeah I'd be upset, are they nice enough people that you can talk to them about it without them blowing up on you?
Elle·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@tibi2696, unfortunately they are the type of people who would immediately go on the defense and attack everything I’ve ever done to them 🙄 they are extremely defensive and can be very mean @denisse.m, I think that’s what I’m going to do. I’m just going to say screw it and NEVER do any type of holiday dinner at my house again!
Tiff·
@aboutellesbabes I'm sorry, my ex's family was like that and I had to pretty much ignore them.
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@aboutellesbabes, i can’t stand when people are like that, you guys are supposed to be family and help each other out not be mean to each other