Once again it’s phil and ashley on a team instead of phil and I. He defends his sister with EVERYRHING. We had thanksgiving at our house yesterday and his sister and her family spent the whole day cooking with their mom and me (which is actually their dad’s house also, so lots of people!) After dinner they literally packed up food for their house and left. They didn’t help clean up ONE thing. I said something to phil today in a very nice way and he snapped at me. He literally said “you let these things get to you because you are hormonal” my question to you guys would be, would you be mad if you were left trash and platters and platters and dishes upon dishes of dirty shit EVERYWHERE?! Or is that not a big deal at all?? Am I just being hormonal?
@aboutellesbabes I'm sorry, my ex's family was like that and I had to pretty much ignore them.
@tibi2696, unfortunately they are the type of people who would immediately go on the defense and attack everything I’ve ever done to them 🙄 they are extremely defensive and can be very mean @denisse.m, I think that’s what I’m going to do. I’m just going to say screw it and NEVER do any type of holiday dinner at my house again!
Yeah I'd be upset, are they nice enough people that you can talk to them about it without them blowing up on you?
@aboutellesbabes, It’s like they don’t care and at that you’re pregnant that’s even worse to do to someone, i would had said something to my boyfriend side of the family. I wouldn’t do anything for next year. If they want thanksgiving they can host at their place.
@denisse.m, @t143, it’s literally taken me all last night and today to clean all of the pots and pans and platters and dishes and cooking utensils everywhere. We cooked so much food! I would never do this to anyone. I feel like they just don’t respect me at all.
Maybe they were raised different? I know with my family we help clean up first and then if the person hosting suggests to take food we pack food and go.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
New Group..
Ladies, if you would like to join the group I created, it's Charting while ttc. Please join our private group . And no TMI photos allowed. Yay!!!!!!
IUI Monday!!
So today I went in for my routine bloodwork and ultrasound, and found out that I have three follicles at 17mm! Plus another two at 15mm. When leaving the clinic my FS said to take another dose of gonal-f and come back tomorrow to check to see how big they got and that we would do the iui on Wednesday. Well, after getting home, taking my gonal-f and going out to shovel snow (lol) I get a call saying that I am SURGING!!! I haven't ovulated on my own, or even come close to it in years...
For Fun
With most of us in a sleep regression or exhausted from being working moms, or just plain bored I figured it would be fun to get a little game started... so who's up for 2 truths and a lie? It's easy.. you post 3 facts about yourself, 2 true and 1 lie and when you guess you post yours here's mine:
Religion Conspiracy/Theory
**This is not to bash peoples religion and beliefs but to talk about our own theories and ideas** I would like to discuss a certain topic that came to mind after talking to my SO. I know some of you ladies like a good conspiracy talk so i would like to have a good discussion and hear thoughts of others. So back story my SO friends got very offended when he mentioned not believing in god or religion and it got me thinking. Is religion a failing form of goverment cont...
@aboutellesbabes, i can’t stand when people are like that, you guys are supposed to be family and help each other out not be mean to each other