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Sop if you were a single, pregnant mother, and were interested in another guy, would you tell him right away that you…

Sop if you were a single, pregnant mother, and were interested in another guy, would you tell him right away that you are pregnant or wait? I'm not exactly looking to have a full blown relationship right this second. But I am not against meeting someone and letting it be a friend thing for a while before I commit. Ideally if I meet someone i want to take enough time to trust them and know that they will be committed to my kids just as much as me because me and my kids are a package deal. Not to mention I'm 23 weeks and my son's father has shown the most miniscule amount of effort and interest possible so if I date someone else I would LIKE for them to be a father figure to my son. My daughter's father is still a part of her life but my son only has me for now. I don't want to throw expectations out there too soon but when it comes down to it id rather stay single than have a man who can't be a father. But I feel like that is unfair to need of someone considering anyone I date is not the actual father to my two kids.

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spicybpancake

R🦖Мама двоих (младенец)

- I met a guy, who was nice and sweet, he knew my situation and wanted to be a friend.. we did group activities. The first time he was alone with me, was after a pool party I had, he tried to force himself on me “since I was pregnant and single who would believe me” little did he know👮🏻‍♀️💪🏻

I’m not trying to scare you. I have other male friends who aren’t dumb.

My vote is to tell them. You don’t have to go “hi my name is blah blah and I’m __weeks pregnant” but eventually (:

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believeinbuddha

Buddhist MamaМама четверых детей

When I divorced my ex husband I was pregnant with my son. And I was about 6 months along when I started to date this guy. Well we had sex and he couldn't even tell I was pregnant 😂😂😂 I had to tell him. He's like I didn't notice I was like HOW lol

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You couldn't find a babysitter?!

You couldn't find a babysitter?! Mommas, do you take your kids with you to run errands and go to mundane appointments? On two separate occasions, a doctors appointment for me and today at a car service appointment, someone has remarked "you couldn't find a babysitter?!" It never crossed my mind to find a babysitter. I take my 2 kids with me just about everywhere. They are well behaved (minus the occasional 3 year old meltdown) and one of them is attached to my boob the majority of the time anyway. Am I the only one? Is that a weird thing to do? Do most moms find babysitters?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?