Why are kids always so bad when they come back from dad's
😬 she just got home a couple hours ago and will not listen, is literally jumping all over me, and the second I get onto her she's hollering "I want daddy. But I guarantee tomorrow she's gonna be the sweetest baby. Loving, hugging, kissing. It's always just the day she comes back.
TWW!! 2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Watch out ladies she just scorched me with her come back I might need some prayers ladies please and thanks 😂
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
I'll be 33 weeks tomorrow.. my baby is head down... I know she could always move.. but is she more likely to come early (before due date) if she's already turned!? sorry if it's a stupid question I'm just curious..
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It's like that with all kids who have parents in seperate homes, I've found. You have the disciplined parent who lays down the rules, and the "fun" parent who doesn't want to enforce rules because they want to woo the kids to their side and voila....you have the kids that think you're a meanie and daddy is awesome. Same here, but vice versa. 😒
Raina·
Being the child of separated parents myself, I recall doing the same thing (not sure why) but as I got older and realized how much my mom has sacrificed for me it made me wonder why I was always such a daddy’s girl even though he was never around. I think it might’ve just been the fact that I saw him a couple times a month that made me miss him so much. But like I said, when I got older I️ realized that I’m definitely a mamas girl.
Elizabeth·
Happens to me everytime my daughter gets home from her dads and cries that she wants her dad the next day she’s all over me and says how she doesn’t want to go to her dads
dana·
My son crys and runs from the door when his dad comes, told him twice now me stay w mommy!! Breaks my heart. Then when I go to get them they both in crappy moods for the night like they are mad at me for sending them. My daughter tonight cried herself to sleep cuz I didn't have time to lay w her. My son followed me around house crying, but was mean at same time. If I tried holding him he would push me away
Karianne Marie·
My step daughter is opposite. Shes awful when she comes back from her moms. Has even started SAYING "Wahhhh" when she doesnt get what she wants
Sarah·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@kariannemarie my daughter has started doing that waahh thing too. She if I get onto her or spank her or put her in time out she tries to get onto me by saying "you HURT me" and acts like time out is just torture and doesn't seem to learn from it much.
Sarah·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@danad269 my daughter usually wants to go to her daddy's. At one time she didn't but she's gotten used to the routine. But it did break my heart when she would cry and say "I want mama" every time I gave her to him.
Karianne Marie·
@maxx its frustrating bc she used to love me and act like i could save her from going back to her moms (going back to her moms is a horrible fight with her. Like kicking and screaming tantrum) and i felt so loved. Now at 3yrs old shes said that mommy told her to be mean to me so she treats me like crap. I cant hug hubby or hold his hand without the "Wahhh" or a screaming fit
dana·
@maxx, yes at first he cried then he stopped for a few months. Now has started back up again. So not sure what has happened to make it start again