RANDOM QUESTION:
Do you feel that after your significant other cheats you should be able to have all access to his/her phone at anytime you want, no questions asked?
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Wouldn't matter, cuz the relationship would be over
I look at my husband's phone whenever I want. He never questions me, and he can take my phone too. However , if he cheated on me I wouldn't be with him. My husband has fucked up before (not cheating) and until I moved on it was miserable for us. If the only reason you're going on their phone is to snoop then I don't think the relationship is worth having.
Definitely. In an honest relationship, I'd assume you could look in your partners phone regardless if they have ever cheated. And vice versa. What's to hide?
I'm not sure I'd still be with my s/o if he cheated on me. Not unless we went to therapy to work out the issues that lead to the cheating in the first place.
But to answer your question, yes. But I'd try not to abuse it as it doesn't seem like it would make things better.
Yes.. sadly have been threw this to many times with my exs if they want to reconcile the relationship and want you to be able to trust again yes he should be open to giving you his phone any time you ask
I been with my bf for 2 years now and he always holds it close/locked and until this day has not even let me see it even if i was to ask...i think hes hiding something for that reason because youd at least let me see it once without you supervising me. I think he cheated on me but he says he hasn't and ive been insecure every since. Reason why: our first 1/2 year of being together wasnt all peachy and i went away for 2 weeks came back around that 1st week and he said he wouldnt go to his GUY friend bday and stay home with me..MIND YOU i drove and hour home to see him because i knew he would stay home...HE changed his mind end up going and said he wouldnt be long. Fast foward...he didn't come home until 5am which is when i was heading back out to leave for work. The moment in the bathroom he knew he was wrong and all he did was hug me and i said get off and left and we argued the whole day over the phone because i found the pic. On fb of the party he went to and it was one of his FEMALE friends he used to work with and ran her around for errands apparently. So i was mad at that lie and then he said he got super drunk and didnt want to drive home which is why he didnt come back..HERE'S my problem and what makes me think he cheated. She was messing around with a married man and he knew that and still wanted to be her friend im like why would you want a friend like that.then on her birthday she was wearing a see through outfit pretty much in black and he made all these excuses for her. He said before thT hes not aware of his actions when he get drunk and he could get wild but then i ask him Bout it Nd he said nothing happened he just was knocked out..this may be true but ive been on edge every since which is why i always cause arguments..packed my stuff plenty of times and came back and my dumb but knew if i slept with him again i just had a bad feeling i would get pregnant this time before i really planned to leave and i end up pregnant and im still here wondering if hes around just being sneaky or something just because he STILL CONTINUES to keep his phone close and on lock all the tims...my phone stay unlocked...hes my boyfriend and ive never cheated on him...i think him being my first made it hard for me to leave..sorry for the long response but this just been on my chest forever...i want to get past it because our child is here and we have good days together but the weirdness with the phone thing just still makes me question him..i dont want to leave because i want my son with his mom and dad together and the dad is the same way..but deep down i know we arent really happy..he says hes happy with me and only love me but..man i wish you all was here to just really let me know if hes not worth it or if im tripping.