@erika718 Yeah I couldn't agree with you more! Thank You! it's just annoying how conflicted I am,at first he SAID he was going to be there,next thing I know he was being very rude and disrespectful, and brushing me off,and even got another gf. I was so stressed and crying all of the time bc if him I realized I need to let go,so I did. I changed my number and didn't talk to him for 3 months. I had started talking to someone new towards the end of that,but more on a friendship level, and he found out somehow and ended up popping up at my house,saying he was trying to be there for the baby and blah blah blah...I knew he was just there out of spite, and being prideful. I shut him down quick, he left. Weeks went by and I decided I'd reach out to him,I gave him an ultimatum. Either step up or get stepped over and he says he's stepping up,he's been talking to me and checking on me, but I feel like I don't need that if he's not going to take me serious relationship wise after all of this time only talk to me about the baby... It's soooo annoying. *ends rant * lol

I felt overwhelmed recently, didn't know whether I should give him another chance or let him go. I gave mines another chance and two weeks ago he messed it all up. Now back to square one. If he won't step up to the daddy plate and/or step up to being the man you need him to be, then you could do bad all by yourself. But if you think there is room for improvement with him and he really trying to change perhaps be a little more patient. But don't be surprised if he disappoints you again. When people show me who they are I believe them 💯

With or without him!

I moved on and it has been the best decision of my life. Everyone is different but I will tell you, if he Ain't doing shit now he probably will never change. I know mines didn't and I've wasted time. You and your baby should always be first priority above baby daddy