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@ib.crazyskittles18 ok, and if you go out and work you're already going out and meeting strangers. You have to help yourself. You can't be scared because you are now responsible for another life. Having a baby is literally the hardest thing you are ever going to do, you need to force yourself to get help or you're going to continue to feel scared.
@jsco yes and I answered when you asked if I had help i said i have no friends my parents are around and I have a midwife, obviously getting pregnant wasnt planned, abortion and adoption were not options for me that doesn't mean im not terrified, i said ive looked into prenatal and parenting classes but its scary too going out of the house and meeting strangers all i ever do is work and come home and yes life is unfair i cant change the fact that there are so many women who want to get pregnant but cant im not God i would give them the ability to get pregnant if I was
@ib.crazyskittles18 I understand that. And lots of people are not cut out for it, that's why I've asked a billion times if you have help or are getting help. You must have known how scary everything was before you got pregnant, which is kind of making me wonder now if @loving-life is right. If you were truly terrified you would not be having this child, you wouldn't make these posts and refuse help. There are so so many women that wished they were in your shoes, and yet here we are.
@jsco everything about having a child is scary though
@ib.crazyskittles18, I finally got what you are doing or trying to do, you write posts like this and enjoy peoples reaction, your posts are all the same, they are either depressing or terrifying and instead of taking advise from some mothers or mothers to be you comment back in such a careless way, I do not think what you are doing is right, some people take your posts very seriously yet to you it’s funny how moms are trying so hard to help you or direct you in the right way...
@ib.crazyskittles18 well you can't be scared of everything. You need support and you need to learn. Having a child is a huge responsibility and you need to be able to properly care for your baby.
@jsco no friends, my parents are around though but i feel like more of a burden to them and ive looked into them but scared to go
Do you have support, or taken parenting classes so you can feel better ?
Have you looked into putting the baby up for adoption or anything ? If you don't feel prepared or able to care for him it night put your mind at ease
@coltonsmommy17 just saying i wish I didnt have to feel him move its painful and it scares me
@ib.crazyskittles18, you realize if baby stopped moving there would be something wrong right..?
@ib.crazyskittles18, youd be fine if your baby wasnt moving..?
@ib.crazyskittles18 just try and relax. Pregnancy is only such a short time of your child's life ! Soon he'll be outside enjoying life with you
@ib.crazyskittles18, Hun what’s wrong, would you even care if your baby wasn’t moving for weeks? I’m terrified to read your posts/comments:((((
I've never had a baby's movement actually hurt me do I don't know what that's like..its uncomfortable though.
@neko86 i didnt feel him for the longest time and it was so nice, but now he went from nothing to hurting me :/
@ib.crazyskittles18 really? That's a really sad thought...
At least he is moving 😊 imagine your stress if he wasnt at all
You can't keep saying you can't or won't. You're making this harder on yourself and it's clearly not in the best interest of your child.