So me and my husband went to bed together the next day I woke up and I went to send a photo off his phone to my phone and happen to notice that at midnight he took a picture of his penis ? So I asked him why was there a penis pic in his phone from last night and he plays it off like he had no clue what I was talking about and then when I showed him and he acted like he had no clue how it got there so clearly I’m not stupid and I know he’s probably talking to someone else but in that moment I left it at that and I haven’t said anything else about it I don’t know how to bring it up without fighting I just want the truth he cheated on me with my first pregnancy and we were trying to make it work and I ended up pregnant again and I feel like he’s just gonna do it all again ....I honestly don’t know what to do anymore
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Yeah there's no way to play that off like i don't know how that got there. If you have access to cell account you can look to see who he was texting last night or you can get his phone go into his apps store and see if he's downloading/deleting an app
I am sorry that you are going through this. As much as you want to avoid the fight, I'd bring it up again. I played the quite, silent type for far too long worrying about the fight that would ensue or how it would spin back on me, and I have since decided, I can't do that anymore, which is why my advice is confront him again. You deserve to be happy. You don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't treat you with respect. Harboring the feelings that come with infidelity, only torture you. They only make you angrier, more paranoid and suspicious. Confront him, and it's up to you if you believe what he says, but just remember you deserve to be treated with respect.
I still vividly remember my ex screaming at me, I've never fucking cheated on you, you can fucking trust that.
months later - I realized his email was open on my lap top (after the divorce was finalized) and there were emails from July - August of the previous year that shown her WAS cheating on me. (with a 17 year old, by the way we were 32)
You have to stand up for yourself, regardless if you choose to stay or go. You deserve to be happy and not live in angst. Good luck
Probably not my place but, you either trust him or you don't. If you don't, then do you really want to stay in a scenario like that? It's been proven that cheaters often repeat the offense. If you don't trust him, then it may be best to bite the bullet and move on. No sense in being unhappy and paranoid for the rest of your life and you dont want your kids growing up to think his behaviour is acceptable.
@akm2396 I had the same situation with my two kids.. I ended up telling him that the girl told me everything, then he finally confessed. Then I finally left for good. Divorce and all. ✌ one mistake I'll deal with but once u have what "you want" back and still choose to cheat, then its.pretty obvious where his head is. He'll slip eventually they always do.
@akm2396 start paying attention. Maybe he s doing something on an app. I know this topic ohhh so well. Eventually ull get tired of it n start to worry about ur own phone.
@mommyofgirlnboy, I did and there’s nothing on it idk how to catch him or what else to do
He s unfortunately doing something he shouldn't be n bringing it up again is no point since you already know what it is. Start going thru his phone.
This is when us women walk away, u'll know when enough is enough
@bethann87 actually u are right u can go in the phone account and see who he talked to at that time of night. It's how my MIL found out about my FIL. @akm2396
I'm sorry it's happening to you.